Super embarrassing!

[PondPopper]

You are in a very tuff spot.. Parents of young children these days are playing against a stacked deck.. The system sets you up to fail..

I would definitely get rid of all electronics and then I would put the fear of GOD almighty in him... He would honestly believe that I was capable of killing him when I was done.. It can be done without leaving marks.. His rebellion will only get worse and the "system" that help create him, and held you back, will not give 2 $h!ts about him at that point....

[klooney]

You are in a very tuff spot.. Parents of young children these days are playing against a stacked deck.. The system sets you up to fail..

I would definitely get rid of all electronics and then I would put the fear of GOD almighty in him... He would honestly believe that I was capable of killing him when I was done.. It can be done without leaving marks.. His rebellion will only get worse and the "system" that help create him, and held you back, will not give 2 $h!ts about him at that point....

This was done 3 months ago, everything almost to a T, and like I’ve said, everything has been great since then

[DRettele]

OP - so sorry you are going through this. Praying for you and your family.

If something like that happens to me I hope I can handle it as well as you are.
I would definitely consult a lawyer just to be prepared if anything further happens.

[klooney]

OP - so sorry you are going through this. Praying for you and your family.

If something like that happens to me I hope I can handle it as well as you are.
I would definitely consult a lawyer just to be prepared if anything further happens.

My aunt is a lawyer, who used to do stuff for cps.. I’ve already talked to her

[crc]

That is one ****ty situation. Hope nothing more comes of it.

[PondPopper]

This was done 3 months ago, everything almost to a T, and like I’ve said, everything has been great since then

We'll work on your crazy face...
My DAD always had this certain crazy, glassy eyed look he made when I knew I was close to having a near death experience.. It always worked.. LOL!!
But of course I always knew he was willing and capable if I kept pushing..
I never recieved a beating that I didn't deserve..

[Jon B]

Can’t do that... I got a lesson on the proper way to give a spanking this afternoon!

Sad....Don't sweat it dad but be prepared for some BS. I'd be calling "Karen" and let her know what I think of her BS.


I have been at houses when drug tests were completed by cps and both parents popped positive for marijuana and the house was disgusting and nothing happened. I bet you are good but it's going to suck. I'd be ****** if someone tried to tell me how to spank my kid. Good luck man.

[Kevin]

I think you are handling this as best as you can. Keep calm and handle the issue with respect and honesty. Kid knows he f'ed up and now knows what consequences mean.

Can someone explain to me the reason for the anger against the girl's mother? His son lied to her daughter and said her dad would beat him and held him underwater. The son drops off the face of the planet (no communication) and I am sure the mother is worried about the boy. She eventually calls CPS because they are afraid the kid is in danger.

While I certainly would be mad about the entire situation, I am not sure its the girls mom I would be most angry with. The blame falls on the sons shoulders. Its too easy to "pass the buck" now days.

[klooney]

I think you are handling this as best as you can. Keep calm and handle the issue with respect and honesty. Kid knows he f'ed up and now knows what consequences mean.

Can someone explain to me the reason for the anger against the girl's mother? His son lied to her daughter and said her dad would beat him and held him underwater. The son drops off the face of the planet (no communication) and I am sure the mother is worried about the boy. She eventually calls CPS because they are afraid the kid is in danger.

While I certainly would be mad about the entire situation, I am not sure its the girls mom I would be most angry with. The blame falls on the sons shoulders. Its too easy to "pass the buck" now days.

Unfortunately I have to agree with you... the problem lies with the kids I would like to think I would do the same for same other kid...

[klooney]

Actually I’d like to think I would confront said dad in a civil manner, but here I am

[Artos]

I couldn't imagine & reading this makes me tickled my kids are now adults.

I'm sorry anyone would have to go through this...so what's the plan now & when will the case be closed / exoneration??

[AlaskaFlyerFan]

I think you are handling this as best as you can. Keep calm and handle the issue with respect and honesty. Kid knows he f'ed up and now knows what consequences mean.

Can someone explain to me the reason for the anger against the girl's mother? His son lied to her daughter and said her dad would beat him and held him underwater. The son drops off the face of the planet (no communication) and I am sure the mother is worried about the boy. She eventually calls CPS because they are afraid the kid is in danger.

While I certainly would be mad about the entire situation, I am not sure its the girls mom I would be most angry with. The blame falls on the sons shoulders. Its too easy to "pass the buck" now days.

I understand what you're saying. Maybe the mother had genuine concern based on what she was told.

[67olds442]

Keep your cool brother. These are very different and challenging times to be raising children. Be strong and just raise them the best you know how and hopefully the rest will work out.

[TSFiredog]

Sounds like he needs to be grounded for a month or 4 and maybe a belt. And find new friends. .

[Dale Moser]

Super embarrassing!

I think you are handling this as best as you can. Keep calm and handle the issue with respect and honesty. Kid knows he f'ed up and now knows what consequences mean.

Can someone explain to me the reason for the anger against the girl's mother? His son lied to her daughter and said her dad would beat him and held him underwater. The son drops off the face of the planet (no communication) and I am sure the mother is worried about the boy. She eventually calls CPS because they are afraid the kid is in danger.

While I certainly would be mad about the entire situation, I am not sure its the girls mom I would be most angry with. The blame falls on the sons shoulders. Its too easy to "pass the buck" now days.

She could have used a little judgement and realized taking the words of over dramatic children may not be the best 1st move. Maybe have an adult conversation with someone rather than sicking a corrupt, bloodthirsty, government beuracracy on him..


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