What was this teacher thinking?

[Playa]

I don’t disagree there’s something jacked up in her head, but I’d love to see some type of study on long-term effects of girls vs. boys in this situation. My totally uneducated guess is that it would be different, and I think that’s probably why we look at it differently.

Well here ya go, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/15894146/

Results of this study, of the participants of this research 40% were abused by women. The results did not vary based on the gender of the abuser or the abused.
TWICE as likely to commit suicide
40% more likely to marry a female alcoholic
50% more likely to have marital problems.

Yeah go ahead and keep giving these ladies a slap on the wrist and giving those boys a HIGH FIVE... there’s no harm being done

[TexMax]

Just me, or does she look like a young Jennifer Connelly?

No more like 30's Jennifer connely. Who was hotter than her younger self

[BBReezen]

That's like shooting a 278" free range buck at 14 years old. That boy be ruined.

On the other hand, am I the only one who keeps going back to the OP?

Shoot, if he is good enough to get that at 14, just think what he will do when he gets some experience after a few seasons...

She is a predator, no different than if this were a male teacher and female student. We would be calling for him to be delivered to the pit of misery.

Your right, I'll agree with you and give her a little Dilley Dilley!!!

[mudkat]

Just me, or does she look like a young Jennifer Connelly?

Oh Man Jennifer was my all time favorite

[mudkat]

You know now that I think about it I never in my whole time at school was there a teacher I can remember worth even yanking one over LOL.

[donpablo]

Exceptions to the Rule

If this was flipped and an older man was having consensual relations with a young girl, the girl would likely have deep psychological issues as a result. The girl more than likely saw the man as a strong/powerful and protective figure who truly cared about her (thus the attraction and then ultimate betrayal), the sex was something he (the perpetrator) wanted and she only obliges to please him. After it ends, she is dragged into court, becomes socially shamed (which only compounds her own personal shame and self-hatred), and castigates herself from most social situations. Things progress in a snowball affect leaving her with long term and deep issues.

Most of the time I’d agree with this statement. But remember there are exceptions. I know a woman who, as a teenager met her mother’s co-worker and made the conscious decision to seduce him. Of course she was already highly active sexually beforehand and had also been molested as a child. I’m sure the aforementioned abuse was a major factor in her atypical behavior but nonetheless she’s an example of those exceptions.

Was that co-worker any less guilty of pedofilia? I don’t think so. I wouldn’t allow him to use the excuse that she was (and probably still is) bat-**** crazy.

The woman in the OP needs to be locked up. Maybe as community service she can send y’all pictures from prison.

[systemnt]

yes. Shes a been a bad, bad girl.

[Snacks]

Most of the time I’d agree with this statement. But remember there are exceptions. I know a woman who, as a teenager met her mother’s co-worker and made the conscious decision to seduce him. Of course she was already highly active sexually beforehand and had also been molested as a child. I’m sure the aforementioned abuse was a major factor in her atypical behavior but nonetheless she’s an example of those exceptions.

Was that co-worker any less guilty of pedofilia? I don’t think so. I wouldn’t allow him to use the excuse that she was (and probably still is) bat-**** crazy.

The woman in the OP needs to be locked up. Maybe as community service she can send y’all pictures from prison.

I don't disagree. Every case is different and I noted that. I also agree that she should be locked up.

[Capt.Brown]

Isn't it weird how the 14 year old boy is lucky and should have kept quiet and the 14 year old girl in the reverse situation is traumatized and should have alerted authorities on day 1?

Very, very different, IMO

[Tx.Fisher]

That kid could’ve walked into school like this
Instead, he told his parents?!





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[Playa]

Very, very different, IMO

How is it different?

[bloodtrailer28]

yes. Shes a been a bad, bad girl.

I'll volunteer to give her a spanking to teach her a lesson

[ultrastealth]

How is it different?

Newsflash: men and women are different, physically, psychologically, and emotionally. The difference between the way that men and women view sex is like night and day. If you haven't figured that out, well, I can't help you. Was what she did wrong, yes. Is it the same as a male teacher and a young girl? Not on this planet.

[Carpe_diem]

If you think the female teacher is a predator, then you should definitely NOT go to You tube and search for:

saturday night live teen boy and teacher skit

[Playa]

Newsflash: men and women are different, physically, psychologically, and emotionally. The difference between the way that men and women view sex is like night and day. If you haven't figured that out, well, I can't help you. Was what she did wrong, yes. Is it the same as a male teacher and a young girl? Not on this planet.

Newsflash- research shows the same I’ll effects on boys molested by women as girls molested by men.

For the 2nd time since it seems all y’all want to do is live in sexual fantasy land.
Maybe the fact will at some point be absorbed.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/15894146/

Long-term consequences of childhood sexual abuse by gender of victim.
Dube SR, et al. Am J Prev Med. 2005.
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Abstract
BACKGROUND: Childhood sexual abuse (CSA) is a worldwide problem. Although most studies on the long-term consequences of CSA have focused on women, sexual abuse of both boys and girls is common. Thus, a comparison of the long-term effects of CSA by gender of the victim will provide perspective on the need for future research, prevention activities, and treatment of survivors.

METHODS: A retrospective cohort study was conducted from 1995 to 1997 among 17,337 adult HMO members in San Diego, California. Participants completed a survey about abuse or household dysfunction during childhood, and multiple other health-related issues. Multivariate logistic regression was used to examine the relationships between severity of CSA (intercourse vs no intercourse) and long-term health and social problems (substance use and abuse, mental illness, and current problems with marriage and family) by gender of victim. Models controlled for exposure to other forms of adverse childhood experiences that co-occur with CSA. Among men, the relationship between the gender of the CSA perpetrator to the outcomes was also examined.

RESULTS: Contact CSA was reported by 16% of males and 25% of females. Men reported female perpetration of CSA nearly 40% of the time, and women reported female perpetration of CSA 6% of the time. CSA significantly increased the risk of the outcomes. The magnitude of the increase was similar for men and women. For example, compared to reporting no sexual abuse, a history of suicide attempt was more than twice as likely among both men and women who experienced CSA (p<0.05). Compared with those who did not report CSA, men and women exposed to CSA were at a 40% increased risk of marrying an alcoholic, and a 40% to 50% increased risk of reporting current problems with their marriage (p<0.05).

CONCLUSIONS: In this cohort of adult HMO members, experiencing CSA was common among both men and women. The long-term impact of CSA on multiple health and social problems was similar for both men and women. These findings strongly indicate that boys and girls are vulnerable to this form of childhood maltreatment; the similarity in the likelihood for multiple behavioral, mental, and social outcomes among men and women suggests the need to identify and treat all adults affected by CSA.