Need Some Quick Advice if Possible

[justletmein]

You've spent your entire life Holidays and deer seasons here, change it up a little bit... go and make the best out of it.

[DuckDogTrainer]

Burritos, fajitas, enchiladas...... I'd go

[woodsman]

That is tough but these would be my questions.
1) Who would it hurt or disappoint more if you were not there, your family or your gf?
2) Would your gf completely understand and not question your commitment to her?
3) Is there anyone in your family that this could be there last Christmas? (Grandparents etc)
4) Christmas isn't about you so who would it mean more to if you were there?
5) Can you afford that many days off work?
Be in prayer until you have to make a decision and ask that God makes it clear for you and whatever you feel you should do, stick to it and don't allow yourself to wander about the what ifs.

Good luck and Merry Christmas - Alex

^^^

If you are heading toward serious with this gal, spending time with her around her family is never a bad thing. It will either reinforce where things are going, or could raise some questions. When you hitch your wagon to a girl, you get the whole package typically. It sounds like it will be a great time, but this is a great opportunity to experience her with her family, and also potentially make some friends. The hunting component is always extra...but...you never know what kind of fruit new friendships with her family may produce.

There will be many more hunting seasons and family holidays waiting for you. I would also consider what message your absence could send to her family, even if you're on good terms with them, etc. if it were me, i would go. But I know whatever you feel God is leading you to do is the right choice

[txjustin]

Burritos, fajitas, enchiladas...... I'd go

Add in Mexican beer and it's a no-brainer!

[Jaq]

I would say go and enjoy yourself. And it sounds like her family is really going out of their way to accommodate you and make sure you have a great time. Roll the dice, it's just Mexico. If all else fails you can cross the border with coyotes, you got time before Trump puts the wall up lol.

[justletmein]

^lol

[rladner]

if you are serious about this girl then you need to consider the fact that someday SHE will be your family. So from that standpoint you will be spending the holiday's with your family. My wife is Mexican and I spent several christmas's down there with her and her family before we were married. I didn't even get to hunt . But don't regret any of them. Just part of growing older. Your family grows and changes. Just need to embrace it and enjoy all the great new memories you are making and having. Good luck.

[jjaimes]

Thats why I love the TBH Forum! Thank You all for all your thoughts,opinions,advice,etc. This has really helped alot!

[Das71198]

Do you have to have a Passport? I was not sure of the rules.

[jjaimes]

Do you have to have a Passport? I was not sure of the rules.

We are actually waiting on those to come in they should be here tomorrow if they dont come in then we wont go but Im sure they are going to be here tomorrow based on the tracking info..

[JW]

Do you have to have a Passport? I was not sure of the rules.

Well if you wanna come back..... [emoji12]

[d1rich1]

Have fun in Mexico!!

[Monark]

Lot's of pretty women around Beaumont.

If you want to go to Mexico, go. If not, you have a kitchen pass. Just sayin'

[WestTXHunter]

Seriously you need to man up and make a decision. If you can't go with her for that long why even waste your time on the relationship?

What he said

[kabanh]

Ill go for you and hunt Mexico for you jk
your family will understand just spend it with them next year alternate your years if you want to keep this woman.