need to vent/ relationship is broken

[CooterBrown]

Dated a girl for 5 years part of high school and college. She broke it off with me. I was tore up. Drunk drunk drunk all the time. Met another girl. Now I've been married for 3 years, we have two beautiful children. Best thing that ever happened to me splitting with her.

[Hooper]

One thing I've learned over the years is that God does what's best for me and for you always. You said that the relationship was stressed which would have led to a poor marriage. We may not understand, like or agree with the paths we walk sometimes in life but, if that is what He wants for us, we must walk it. I've been laid off, broke, broken up with, faught a war, and wondered why. Looking back, after the healing was over, I was able to see wisdom in His plan. I know it hurts now but it will pass. Stay strong my friend and look forward to the many blessings yet to come.

So very true!!! God has a plan! He never closes one door that He doesnt open another, we just have to make sure we dont stare at the closed one so long that we missed the one that He holds open!

Prayers to you my friend...

[Buckrider]

http://www.plentyoffish.com/

A good FREE dating site that works! Good luck

[billfromtx]

it takes time. It will get better. Just get your stuff and go on down the road. If she is already thinking about dating, it's been over for her for a while. You'll heal and be better off.

^this!

[woodbine]

It hurts now but it will pass! Every man will tell you he has bettered himself everytime he got dumped! My Dad always told me "The bus will drop you off and 15minutes later another will come around and pick you up. Travel the world one bus ride at a time."

[Patton]

Ruby dog hit the nail on the head!

[Miki]

nothing will get her attention,

until you find a new one that's half as old and twice as hot......

then it won't matter anymore.

Thats what I did

[Badboypfg]

NEXT!!!

X2

[sodapop15]

nothing will get her attention,

until you find a new one that's half as old and twice as hot......

then it won't matter anymore.

X2

[firexd]

Thanks guys been going out alot with the buds and hitting the bars must say it is a blast havnt been out like this in a long long time...but she knows im going out and talking to chicks and partying and she is getting upset ??? *** is up with that...shouldnt she be happy

[El Coyote]

here some perspective,

better to have it happen now, then be together for 19yrs, married for 9, be told that since the kids are on the way that your marriage will have to be put on hold for awhile, then all the while feel down right taken for granted, then start taking her for granted, have a difficult marriage, have an affair, try to work through it other bad stuff happen, 3 years later then be told that she's not gonna try anymore, go to work come back and be told to pack your stuff and get the heck out!!! Lose a job, only see your kids every other weekend, sit and wonder what the heck has happened....last decent thing we did was go to the TTHA extravaganza and had a great time, week later KABOOM!!!!! i'm not ever going to another TTHA event.........Also did she happen to see you on the scooter??? go get'em!!!!!

[deercrazy]

She is just upset because she doesn't want to see you happy with out her, but she don't want you. I had one just lke that many years ago. RUN far far away and do it at night. It will make it harder for her to track you.

[artadams]

Hey man, better that you find out now, then when you are 9 years in with little ones running round. That's when things really get messy. Some guys on this site will agree with me, after too long, it's cheaper to keep her.

[Burrito]

Now she's just wanting attention. You need to be sure not to give it to her. I'm just gonna go ahead and say it: do not jump back in the sack with her, or let yourself even be tempted to go down any such road with her. Your mind will then be so clouded.

And I'm going to also go ahead and say this: Do not move in with a girl unless you each have a ring on your finger. And I'm not talking about an engagement ring for her and a college ring for you. If you do it in the wrong order, you're relationship won't be built on the foundation that it should/could be. It may be more convenient in certain situations, but convenience usually comes with a cost, and sometimes an overbearing one.

[woody wood]

nothing will get her attention,

until you find a new one that's half as old and twice as hot......

then it won't matter anymore.

When this man speaks, LISTEN!!

This is the advise I took and I'm more than happy now