need to vent/ relationship is broken

[firexd]

Im tore up guys im broke down and frustrated complete melt down here..My GF and i split on super bowl sunday, the relationship had been streesed leading up this point together for 2.5 years lived together for 1.5 years.." her house "...i did everything for this girl fixed up the house painted the whole thing build a fence by myself..everything....I may not have been best Bf when it came to romance or stuff like that...and im working on it..

So she tells me she wants to take some time to think it out so i give her 6 weeks or so i did however try to contact her during this time even though she asked me not to but it was like i was going through withdrawls symptoms i just couldnt do it...

So of corse she got ******..so i go over this past saturday to talk and she says she wants me and wants to get back but wont do it cause she knows it wont work..WHAT the !!!??

So of course im mad..so i leave come to find out she has an online dateing profile ...and is trying to date..already ..

this is crushing me guys i loved this woman and wanted to merry her, maybe its for the best but me knowing that its over and we are not getting back together then why am i so hung up on her ? i cant shake her out of my mind i think about her all the time i wanna call her but cant any advice whould be good.


Thanks Steve..iv never poured it out like this but i have to do something.

[Deb]

It takes time. It WILL get better. Just get your stuff and go on down the road. If she is already thinking about dating, it's been over for her for a while. You'll heal and be better off.

[Tubby]

NEXT!!!

[James]

I don't got much advise brotha. Dated a girl for 3 yrs broke up she got engaged 7 months later, messed my head up bad, been like 3 years since we broke up still think bout her but o well get back out there and meet some new girls there is plenty fish in the sea. At least you get to go hunting and fishing more. I don't know how old you are but I sure enjoyed the single life for a while. Their all crazy!

[titleist9]

don't chase her / replace her .

you found out she had an online dating profile , how did you find this out ? Stalking or you had same type of acct and saw her on there ? not being mean , just wondering

[Pablo]

If it's this much trouble early, even before engagement, then like Tubby said, "NEXT!!!"

You'll thank us later, lol.

[rzrbak]

It takes time. It WILL get better. Just get your stuff and go on down the road. If she is already thinking about dating, it's been over for her for a while. You'll heal and be better off.

X2.... and we will listen as long as you want us to..... It's ok to confide in people.....




Bobby

[8pointer]

Look at it this way...... It could be a lot worse!!! At least you are finding this out while ya'll are just bf and gf. Ya'll tried to live together, it didn't work. As painful as it may be, you are just going to have to move on. My advice to anyone in this situation, is to chalk it up as a learning experience. Don't just try to make it work and put a bandaid on ya'lls relationship now. If she has these feelings, trust me if ya'll were to stay together, this problem will present itself again. THERE ARE WAY TOO MANY FISH IN THE SEA. It is going to sting for a while but time will heal.

Good luck man. We have all been in this situation some time or another.

[W-L-F]

move on---

[Mayhem]

time heals all wounds. you need a slump buster.

[Heath]

I see you are in Harlingen, Club Fantasy always makes me feel better.

[Ol Thumper]

I see you are in Harlingen, Club Fantasy always makes me feel better.

X2

[rubydog]

STRANGE thoughts come to mind..

[Lonestar88]

Good advice Shaft.. Time heals, stay busy and hang with all your friends...

[tvc184]

NEXT!!!

It sounds crude but there it is.

Been there done that. Takes some time off from anything serious for a couple of months (at least). It passes and usually for the better.

If she wants to move on then let it go. The best things in life aren't always easy and this is probably the best thing.