Divorce

[skinsfan]

Both my parents and my in-laws divorced and re-married. Both have been re-married for years now, it can happen! Spend some time with a counselor first alone and then as a couple trying to make this work.

Best of luck to you buddy!

[Rat]

I know a guy who has been married to the same person twice, and divorced from her twice, we call him Repeat...

I have learned that no one can make you happy; a marriage is when two people who are already happy get together and then things just get better. If you are unhappy and are looking to another to fill that gap it isn't going to work, IMO.

[RiverRat00]

Can’t speak out of experience but my opinion is that the Robles that caused the divorce will always come back when you get together and an argument ensues.. just the nature of the beast..

Better just keep being friends..

Or trie getting together but don’t marry again until you give it a few years of rest run

[Traildust]

Good luck. People don't change.

[In-Yo-Grill]

Good luck. People don't change.

I definitely will NEVER believe that.

Maybe people can't change on their own but I won't/can't limit what God can do in someone's life.

[topshot]

God hates divorce. God loves to restore broken people and relationships. God is a master at renewing what is worn out, rebuilding that which is broken, making old things new, healing the brokenhearted, comforting the weary...etc.

God without relationship is religion - relationships without God are at an extreme disadvantage and will never fully realize the power of unity that God has intended.

I say it can work, but only if you put Jesus Christ at the center of your heart, and your ex-wife does the same - invite him into the relationship and there you will find life.

[gingib]

FOR GOOD TIMES AND BAD...FOR SICKNESS AND HEALTH!!!

If yall didn't realize that, then it won't work now

[Javelin]

prayers sent. I know it is hard. I was not married but I went from ring shopping to single over night one year ago and I still miss her like crazy. there are days I will be driving down the road and just break down because it all hits me that she is not in my life any longer.

[systemnt]

People CAN change.
Unfortunately, without the inclusion of disease such as Alzheimers, People DON'T forget.
They can Forgive, but Forgetting is impossible - and as such... doesnt matter if you've changed or she's changed, whatever it was that you or she did to each other that led to a break up , will ALWAYS be there.
Some CAN live with that.. most can't.
Good luck.

[RascalArms]

My first marriage ended after 4 years and I thought at the time that it was the worst possible thing that could ever happen to me...especially being removed from seeing my son. Ended up being a blessing because if I hadn’t left I would never have met and married my now wife of 30 years this summer.
My advice...just take one day at a time, obviously pray about it, but remember to invest in those that are investing in you.

[glen]

If you are considering it then who cares what anyone else has to say. I will recommend that you guys start over. First step I would take is goto a marriage professional and be 100% honest with yourself and her. I would make sure you are both 100% healed and strong. Before I would take another step. Just an opinion

[TXHunter1089]

I definitely will NEVER believe that.

Maybe people can't change on their own but I won't/can't limit what God can do in someone's life.

Agreed!

[Traildust]

I definitely will NEVER believe that.

Maybe people can't change on their own but I won't/can't limit what God can do in someone's life.

Ok.

[Graysonhogs]

If you are considering it then who cares what anyone else has to say. I will recommend that you guys start over. First step I would take is goto a marriage professional and be 100% honest with yourself and her. I would make sure you are both 100% healed and strong. Before I would take another step. Just an opinion

He cares or he wouldn’t have posted. May just be me, but I like to hear about other’s experiences and thoughts when making a decision on something I have zero experience with.


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[BitBackShot]

People get divorced and then successfully remarried all the time. They also get divorced, remarried, re-divorced all the time too.

Different cases in every scenario. Gotta figure out what works for you.

Good luck.