Divorce help!!

[Hunter_Man]

personal experience,

no cohabitation clauses are unenforceable. if you try to get it enforced, you end up looking like an ***** and it costs a lot of money. the no-cohabitation clauses are only enforceable by civil suit... which is a pain. I was in your shoes almost word for word 6 years ago. it will get easier man... you can't control what she does in her life. if she chooses to shack up with someone, so be it. just focus on your kids, and remaining in their lives as much as possible. after 5 years of bickering with my ex, I now have 50/50 custody of my children, am remarried, and things couldn't be better for us.

prayers to ya bud.

[Hunter_Man]

oh and to whomever mentioned the morality clause, you can still get that, but both parties have to agree to it. basically, a judge will sign off on whatever both parties agree to... but unless there is law in family code about morality clauses (there isn't) then a judge won't order it. just my $.02.

[Mertzon Man]

Prayers sent for you and your kids.

[tonyterry]

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[Fordtough68]

http://cordellcordell.com/offices/texas/

Call these guys. All they do is work on cases for husbands getting divorced. They are all about the men's rights! A good lawyer is what is needed. I was granted full custody of my daughter after a 5 year custody battle. It means a lot to the kids as well to know you fought for them. Good luck!

[Terry]

Give up on the co-hab, just move on

[GarGuy]

Spend the cash for a great lawyer. So far, she has basically run over you with little consideration for you or the kids. Dont give her anything the judge doesnt order. Not a cent. Use her current actions against her. If your lawyer sees time to negotiate, you can always make a few consessions.

[Fordtough68]

Give up on the co-hab, just move on

This.....but with a good lawyer!

[Paladin1]

TxBHT08,
I am a 13B Field Artillery guy. Please email me at h322@gmx.com. I went thru this same stuff when I returned from deployments in 2010/2011. Thanks.

[Christianhuff]

Cheaters

Spend the cash for a great lawyer. So far, she has basically run over you with little consideration for you or the kids. Dont give her anything the judge doesnt order. Not a cent. Use her current actions against her. If your lawyer sees time to negotiate, you can always make a few consessions.

Yup, Gar Guy nailed it...She threw congeniality out the window when she cheated. At this point lawyer up and tell her to shove it! The money spent will be worth it, in a few years you wont even notice it was gone. But the regret of getting run over will stay with you for a long time!!!

[Texag0842]

Thoughts and prayers

I've been in your shoes. I wouldn't even worry about the clause (I had it but people with those morals won't follow it anyway)

Focus on the kids and you will be better off. It's the best thing that ever happened to me.

[Tex1986]

Sorry to hear about your situation. I'll be praying for you.

[Beargrasstx]

Sorry to hear about it bud. It gets better.

[hoghunter69]

i went through the same thing, no matter how nice she act now , there will be problems, make sure you keep your retirement and if your going to pay child support make sure you get to claim your kids every other year on your income tax. best of luck to you, but cover you bases