Divorce help!!

[Paladin1]

TxBHT08,
I am an Army guy, too. I can give you advise, but I will not do it inside of an open forum. I will send you a PM. Thanks.

[Juice]

It won't be enough to get the kids but most divorces in Texas has a morality clause. Just make sure you get that. In my experience, it just forced them to get married quicker(what my ex did). You just make sure you keep the kiddos best interest priority.

[Burnadell]

Sorry for you and your kids!

[denowt]

Personal experience....nobody cares as long as the person is not a pedifile. They will tell you that you can't legislate/rule your morals to the ex. Save the money and spend time praying for God to watch over your boys. Then get back as close as you can as soon as you can.

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Unfortunately, this is probably the best you can hope for.
Unless the guy presents some sort of danger to your kids, there really isn't much you can do.
You can't tell your ex who she lives with, just the same as she can't tell you who you live with.

[Paladin1]

TxBHT08,
I tried sending you a PM, but it won't let me send it until I get above some number of posts. Try to PM me. Thanks.

[LivinADream]

Unfortunately, this is probably the best you can hope for.
Unless the guy presents some sort of danger to your kids, there really isn't much you can do.
You can't tell your ex who she lives with, just the same as she can't tell you who you live with.

Unless it has changed, and I don't think it has, this is wrong. You can even tell her what counties she is limited to living in.

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[denowt]

Unless it has changed, and I don't think it has, this is wrong. You can even tell her what counties she is limited to living in.

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Good to know.
I ended up with custody of my son, but my lawyer never mentioned anything about any of that.
I didn't realize the state would restrict the legal activities of your ex.

[txbowhunter08]

TxBHT08,
I tried sending you a PM, but it won't let me send it until I get above some number of posts. Try to PM me. Thanks.

it wont allow me to pm you! are you a 13b?

[LivinADream]

Good to know.
I ended up with custody of my son, but my lawyer never mentioned anything about any of that.
I didn't realize the state would restrict the legal activities of your ex.

Congrats on custody. I ended up with custody as well, but it was a 3 yr battle, and in the meantime there was a morality clause. It was a lifesaver for me and my sanity.

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[txbowhunter08]

Good to know.
I ended up with custody of my son, but my lawyer never mentioned anything about any of that.
I didn't realize the state would restrict the legal activities of your ex.

I got it in my first divorce (my current wife now) should have learned the first time but I wanted to be with my kids everyday, this time she is trying to fight it cause of where she is living

[locknload]

Don't give up, fight for your rights. Get a lawyer, you have rights too.

[blntrey3]

sorry bud no advice......prayers!!!

[Hogmauler]

Sorry my brother. If it were me Id try to get a hardship discharge and come home.

[Jayt22]

Personal experience....nobody cares as long as the person is not a pedifile. They will tell you that you can't legislate/rule your morals to the ex. Save the money and spend time praying for God to watch over your boys. Then get back as close as you can as soon as you can.

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Yep....best of luck!

[sharkhunter]

Sorry to hear this. You're way better off without that thing in your life. I've walked in your shoes and I can tell you it gets better. Keep your head up and take care of those kids and God will take care of all.