Well guys its been a little bit since I have been on here, Ive been dealing with a lot of stuff. Most of yall probly know whats going on. My wife cheated on me and since then I came to terms with the situation and just want whats best for our 2 boys. With that said we were doing a non contested divorce and had everything agreed on to give the lawyer until tonight. I mentioned the no cohabitation in the divorce and it went down hill from there. With me still being stationed in Kentucky, I have know idea where my kids are staying. We have a house in Killeen that I agreed to keep paying for so her and the kids could live there, but she declined and said she was moving to a co workers house which I didn't really agree with but am tired of fighting. After talking to her tonight about the no cohabitation I'm about 99.9 percent sure she is living with the guy she cheated on me. I thought I would look to the gs for people that might have gone threw this and could offer advice, I plan on talking to the lawyer but there all about getting money. I just don't think its right I don't get to see my kids cause I'm 600 miles away yet shes staying with a guy she has known for a month. Just kinda stuck if I should non contest it or just agree and move on. I truly think this is damaging the kids, but after talking to a few lawyers right after I found out they all seemed like it wasn't a big deal, and not enough to get the kids.
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prayers and support sent brother
definitely a jacked up situation
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That sucks man, hope all gets better for the sake of the kids..Comment
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Never heard of a Judge that wasn't worried about the kids. All this other stuff after separation amounts to nothing. JMO.Comment
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Personal experience....nobody cares as long as the person is not a pedifile. They will tell you that you can't legislate/rule your morals to the ex. Save the money and spend time praying for God to watch over your boys. Then get back as close as you can as soon as you can.
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Man thats terrible. Keep your head up, this will pass.Comment
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Do whatever you think is best for your kids.
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I don't have any advice but prayers sentComment
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Man that's a tough one. Prayers upComment
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That is terrible I'm sorry for the whole situation.Comment
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Prayers Up for You & the kids.Comment
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If she cheated, use it and take control ... Find the best lawyer you can. Short term expense for long term results.
Keep your head and don't stop - keep going after what's best ...Comment
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you said stationed? does the service branch you are under offer an attorney? There is absolutely no reason why you cant ask for cohabitation during and after divorce. Some courts care some don't. I made it very clear in mine that no overnight stays with anyone unless engaged or married. Keep a log and write everything down. prayers your way man.Comment
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There is a such thing as a morality clause, or there was 8-10 years ago. I had one in our papers. No one of other sex, unless family, passed 9pm. It was one we both had to follow, but I was good with it. On days you have the kids, it should be focused on them. Gf can tag along, but come night time, they don't want to share their mommy/daddy with someone else.
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