Sounds like good times. Why she cut out your bushes without your permission is beyond me. That isnt something I would stand for, as it affects the value of your house. But, your wife was right you probably could have handled it better.
Nice Charles gave me a laugh, don't think that has not crossed my mind but really not my style, unless stupid happens in front of my wife or children. I don't think they are that way. It is funny i needed some work done in my house so I got a couple bids from the contractors and they all said she was a bear to deal with.
I always say that I'll be your best friend or worst enemy, make up your mind how u want to play this.
You manned up and said you were sorry, she showed her backside and was childish. Hopefully the husband will put his foot down and apologize for his wife's actions before long
jaker I am with you i am waiting to see what plays out, and the best friend or worse enemy is the way I see it. I really was sorry about my handling of the situation it was my intention to ask for her foregivness for my atcions. I know when i am in the wrong and I do not have a problem admitting it. Hey removed natural tall vegitation from my property. I would probably be happy with " hey sorry what can we do together to fix it!
Building a new home is very stressful. Maybe that is what you are dealing with. Life is too short for grudges and it takes too much energy. From your description, it doesn't sound like the bushes were terribly expensive or even that nice. Just replace them and move on. Let things settle down and bring them a nice house warming gift when they move in.
P.S. we dealt with a similar situation when our neighbors built their house next door. It was not one of my finer moments. Time marched forward and things worked out. They even became god parents to one of our boys.
Taxi your right I dont want to be next to someone I despise, the humping thing aint goin to happen... Evertime I see that it brings me back to the original thread....
Azle
thanks for the comments and ideas they are all going into my options! except the humping LOL!!
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