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    11/05 12:49 CST Injured Indiana hunter chooses to end life support

    Injured Indiana hunter chooses to end life support

    By JENI O'MALLEY
    Associated Press

    INDIANAPOLIS (AP) -- Tim Bowers loved the outdoors. He fished, camped and
    helped his father on his northeastern Indiana farm, carving out time for his
    outdoor passions from a busy life that included a new wife, a baby on the way
    and a successful auto business.

    But it was in the woods, hunting for deer, where Bowers found time to reflect
    on his life and faith.

    "It was just a time when he could be alone and think about things," said his
    sister, Jenny Shultz, an intensive care nurse.

    That's where Bowers, 32, was Saturday afternoon when those quiet moments turned
    tragic. The longtime hunter fell about 16 feet from an elevated tree stand and
    suffered a severe spinal injury that Shultz said left him paralyzed from the
    shoulders down and dependent on a ventilator to breathe. His brain wasn't
    affected.

    Confronted with the devastating prognosis, Bowers' family asked doctors at Fort
    Wayne's Lutheran Hospital a hard question: Could Bowers be brought out of
    sedation so he could be told of his condition and decide for himself whether he
    wanted to live or die?

    The doctors said yes.

    Courts have long upheld the right of patients to refuse life support. The
    American Medical Association says competent adults can craft directives stating
    they want such systems withdrawn or withheld if they suffer certain injuries or
    illness that leave them unable to make those decisions.

    But the heart-wrenching decision to remove life support is more often left to
    surrogates who must speak for those patients. Even when a patient has outlined
    his wishes for end-of-life care, the decision can tear families apart.

    Shultz, of Las Vegas, has seen it happen in her job. But her medical training
    also meant she understood the severity of her brother's injuries. His C3, C4
    and C5 vertebrae were crushed. Though his brain was not injured, his body was
    irreparably broken. Surgery could fuse the vertebrae, but that would only allow
    Bowers to sit up. He would never walk or hold his baby. He might live the rest
    of his life in a rehabilitation hospital, relying on a machine to help him
    breathe. He'd never return to those outdoor activities that gave him such peace.

    "We just asked him, do you want this? And he shook his head emphatically no,"
    Shultz said.

    Shultz said her brother _ the youngest of four siblings _ wanted to talk but
    couldn't because the ventilator tube was still in place. She told him that if
    the tube was removed, they weren't sure how long he would live. But when she
    asked if he wanted the tube reinserted if he was struggling, he shook his head
    no.

    Doctors asked Bowers the same questions and got the same responses. The tube
    came out Sunday.

    The last five hours of Tim Bowers' life were spent with family and friends,
    about 75 of whom gathered in the hospital waiting room. They prayed and sang
    songs.

    Through it all, Shultz said, her brother never wavered in his decision to die.

    "I just remember him saying so many times that he loved us all and that he
    lived a great life," she said. "At one point he was saying, `I'm ready. I'm
    ready.'"

    Medical ethicists say it's rare for patients to decide on the spot to be
    removed from life support, especially so soon after an injury. But standard
    medical ethics practice is to grant more autonomy to patients, and courts have
    upheld their rights to decide on end-of-life care.

    Often, patients change their minds after they've had time to meet with
    spiritual advisers and family, said Art Caplan, director of the medical ethics
    program at New York University's Langone Medical Center in New York City.

    Dr. Paul Helft, director of the Charles Warren Fairbanks Center for Medical
    Ethics in Indianapolis, said cases in which the patient makes the decision
    usually involve a debilitating illness like Lou Gehrig's disease, a condition
    that compromises the patient's body but leaves the mind intact.

    Helft said patients have been legally and ethically permitted to make their own
    decision on life support for several decades now, due in part to court cases
    and the evolution of the practice of medicine, which places more emphasis on
    patients' rights.

    "We give patients autonomy to make all kinds of decisions about themselves," he
    said. "We've recognized that it's important that patients have the right to
    self-determination."

    Shultz said her family had an idea what her brother would want because he had
    previously talked with his wife, Abbey, whom he married Aug. 3, about never
    wanting to spend his life in a wheelchair.

    She knows that not everyone would make the same call. But she's thankful that
    her brother was able to make his own decision.

    "No outcome was ever going to be the one that we really want, but I felt that
    he did it on his terms in the end," she said.

    ___

    Associated Press writer Tom Murphy contributed to this story.

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    #2
    Man that's a tough call. Prayers for the family and the unborn child.

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      #3
      Sad story. Prayers Sent for the family

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        #4
        Prayers sent for the family

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          #5
          Wow - that would be a tough call.

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            #6
            Very sad!

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              #7
              That is sad.

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                #8
                Prayers sent for the family

                Brian

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                  #9
                  Prayers up.

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                    #10
                    makes my stomach churn - horrible horrible thing for a family to have to go through - prayers sent for his family and that the lord would keep a sense of peace and acceptence in their hearts.

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                      #11
                      Don't know all the circumstances but WEAR THAT SAFETY HARNESS!

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                        #12
                        Prayers up!

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                          #13
                          Wow what a tough story to read. Poor guy. Prayers for the family

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by firefyter View Post
                            Don't know all the circumstances but WEAR THAT SAFETY HARNESS!
                            exact same thing I thought of, possibly this tragic accident could have been prevented


                            prayers for all involved

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                              #15
                              Can't even begin to imagine, prayers for his family

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