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    #76
    From searching just a little bit it looks like you have been married for a year or less and she is already running around on you. No way you should stick around for that. It will definitely only get worse and she will try to hide it better in the future. Good luck on whatever road you choose but I know which road I would pick. I do wish you all the luck and know it cant be easy what you had thrown at you.

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      #77
      Originally posted by Calfroper81 View Post
      From searching just a little bit it looks like you have been married for a year or less and she is already running around on you. No way you should stick around for that. It will definitely only get worse and she will try to hide it better in the future. Good luck on whatever road you choose but I know which road I would pick. I do wish you all the luck and know it cant be easy what you had thrown at you.
      You are correct we just had our anniversary sep 23rd

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        #78
        Originally posted by webstertroy View Post

        You are correct we just had our anniversary sep 23rd
        Wow. All of this said, I’m doubling down on my earlier comments.

        Get out. Now.

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          #79
          If it has been 1 year and if you have no kids with her that is the best scenario to at least not ruin you financially. Many of us here have 500k + ex wifes

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            #80
            Originally posted by Joe H View Post
            If it has been 1 year and if you have no kids with her that is the best scenario to at least not ruin you financially. Many of us here have 500k + ex wifes
            We do have a child.

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              #81
              I agree that you can’t “work this out” Troy, not only will you ALWAYS wonder where she is and who she is with, regardless of which road you choose it will still make a mark on you. It can eat you up, so better to pull the splinter out than to try to walk on it. You will remember this when you commit to another woman. Take some time, get some perspective, and take care of your child. Good luck my friend.

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                #82
                Get a good lawyer and make her pay child support. Not to sound cruel but unless the child looks very much like you, I would demand a DNA test.

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                  #83
                  Originally posted by webstertroy View Post

                  We do have a child.
                  That does not matter. GET OUT

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                    #84
                    Ben there done that,prayers up for peace,God is close to the /broken Hearted,it takes awhile but their are alot better days to come

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                      #85
                      She sounds like my ex, she thought her stuff was so good everyone should have a shot of it.😒

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                        #86
                        Originally posted by Drycreek3189 View Post
                        I agree that you can’t “work this out” Troy, not only will you ALWAYS wonder where she is and who she is with, regardless of which road you choose it will still make a mark on you. It can eat you up, so better to pull the splinter out than to try to walk on it. You will remember this when you commit to another woman. Take some time, get some perspective, and take care of your child. Good luck my friend.
                        These are words of wisdom and he's absolutely correct.

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                          #87
                          Originally posted by webstertroy View Post
                          I wanted to say thank you to everyone for the words and messages.. I haven't had to deal with this situation before and its ripping me apart. She is unsure still of what she wants or who she wants.. Does anyone know of a marriage councilor around fort worth
                          This isn't her first time

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                            #88
                            Didn’t your first or second cheat on you? Hope everything works out for you.

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                              #89
                              Troy, you are one of the good guys on here. You have been a part of the TBH family for a long time. We know you deserve better and we don’t want to see you hurt further. Several have given you sound advice to kick her out of you and your child’s home and life. Bite the bullet and lock down all your bank/savings/investment accounts so that she has no access to any of them. Don’t give her a penny and move her personal belongings out of your house IMMEDIATELY. Change the locks on the house. You need a good divorce lawyer. If you can find a female laser, get her!! They are ruthless when representing men against cheating wives.
                              Troy, you are also on strong spiritual grounds too. God hates divorce. He hates adultry even worse and clearly in scripture gives you a free pass and total pardon.

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                                #90
                                Leave her. Trust is gone and will never be back. Terrible way to live. Praying for you…and her.

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