Pray for me

[EZ-10RANCH]

Prayers sent. Pray a lot, stay busy and keep your chin up. However it turns out, you will be ok and most likely happier.

[webstertroy]

I wanted to say thank you to everyone for the words and messages.. I haven't had to deal with this situation before and its ripping me apart. She is unsure still of what she wants or who she wants.. Does anyone know of a marriage councilor around fort worth

[Death from Above]

This may sting.

you dont need a counselor…you need to turn her over to the streets.

i know that people are able to work through adultery. However, if she is telling you she does not know who she wants…she is saying she is for the streets.

a counselor may help you individually but going as a couple is ill advised at this time.

hate you are going through this.

[TexasBob]

This may sting.

you dont need a counselor…you need to turn her over to the streets.

i know that people are able to work through adultery. However, if she is telling you she does not know who she wants…she is saying she is for the streets.

a counselor may help you individually but going as a couple is ill advised at this time.

hate you are going through this.

This. If she doesn't know who she wants that is actually a more direct answer than anything else. It sure isn't you. Easy to say from afar, hard to hear I'm certain. Sorry.

[Snowflake Killa]

Maybe you and the other guy can work out on some kind of agreement. Alternates times to share her. Just maybe he would have agreed to be the cuddler and you could take care of business. I will catch a flack over

[ThisLadyHunts]

This may sting.

you dont need a counselor…you need to turn her over to the streets.

i know that people are able to work through adultery. However, if she is telling you she does not know who she wants…she is saying she is for the streets.

a counselor may help you individually but going as a couple is ill advised at this time.

hate you are going through this.

I agree with Death (although turning her out in the street might be a little harsh. Or not).

By telling you she doesn’t know what or whom she wants is deliberately vague, I think; but no matter how you choose to look at it, one thing’s for certain: she is not committed.

And I’ll share with you some insight on women: generally speaking, women are reluctant to hurt someone’s feelings face-to-face. From my perspective, by telling you she “just doesn’t know” means she’s gently trying to give you the news you don’t want to hear.

I hate like Hell to hear when someone’s going through something like this but, frankly, sir, you deserve better. You deserve undying love and unwavering commitment.

So, do you still try to salvage your marriage? I don’t really know, but if I’d caught my husband in flagrante dilecto, I’d boot his a** right out of the house…and his dirty laundry right along with him.

[ThisLadyHunts]

Maybe you and the other guy can work out on some kind of agreement. Alternates times to share her. Just maybe he would have agreed to be the cuddler and you could take care of business. I will catch a flack over

((eye roll)) You crack me up!

[bowhuntertex]

From someone who has been in your shoes, kick her to the curb. Once a cheater always a cheater, they will just be sneakier about it next time. Once trust is lost it is over. You can easily forgive but will never forget. Like Death said, counseling isn't going to help the both of you. Find you a good Christian counselor and work on yourself. Having someone you trusted cheat on you is hard on the mind.

Now is the time for you. Keep your head up, keep moving forward, and never look back.

[Hogmauler]

This may sting.

you dont need a counselor…you need to turn her over to the streets.

i know that people are able to work through adultery. However, if she is telling you she does not know who she wants…she is saying she is for the streets.

a counselor may help you individually but going as a couple is ill advised at this time.

hate you are going through this.

Boom!!!

[Hogmauler]

Maybe you and the other guy can work out on some kind of agreement. Alternates times to share her. Just maybe he would have agreed to be the cuddler and you could take care of business. I will catch a flack over

Dammit killa!!🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️💩💩💩💩💩💯💯💯💯💯

[Hogmauler]

I agree with Death (although turning her out in the street might be a little harsh. Or not).

By telling you she doesn’t know what or whom she wants is deliberately vague, I think; but no matter how you choose to look at it, one thing’s for certain: she is not committed.

And I’ll share with you some insight on women: generally speaking, women are reluctant to hurt someone’s feelings face-to-face. From my perspective, by telling you she “just doesn’t know” means she’s gently trying to give you the news you don’t want to hear.

I hate like Hell to hear when someone’s going through something like this but, frankly, sir, you deserve better. You deserve undying love and unwavering commitment.

So, do you still try to salvage your marriage? I don’t really know, but if I’d caught my husband in flagrante dilecto, I’d boot his a** right out of the house…and his dirty laundry right along with him.

Here ya go my friend. Straight from a woman’s mouth and insightful as usual. Turn her out.

[C.Read]

This may sting.

you dont need a counselor…you need to turn her over to the streets.

i know that people are able to work through adultery. However, if she is telling you she does not know who she wants…she is saying she is for the streets.

a counselor may help you individually but going as a couple is ill advised at this time.

hate you are going through this.

This is the best advice you are going to get. Don't waste your money on a counselor. By cheating in the first place her loyalty wasn't with you and now she doesn't know who she wants....don't settle for runner up. Kick her azz to the curb. It's going to be rough for awhile but you'll find your way out of the darkness.

[EliteDriver]

Sorry to hear that....

[Duckologist]

Been there, it's a horrible feeling but remember, it won't last forever. Prayers sent

Same, you will come through this.

[Duckologist]

I wanted to say thank you to everyone for the words and messages.. I haven't had to deal with this situation before and its ripping me apart. She is unsure still of what she wants or who she wants.. Does anyone know of a marriage councilor around fort worth

Say man let me tell you that you will never be able to completely trust her ever again. You can forgive but you can never forget. Don't make the mistake I did and give her a second chance. You'll be sweatin what shes really doin when she out with her friends. And then one day You'll find out she been sleeping with everyone but you. I know its very emotional and painful right now but save yourself from any more grief. Someone that would hit you with the ultimate betrayal is not worth your time. My heartfelt advice is to cut your losses so you can one day have a happy life again.