Go work on you first. Chase your dreams and goals. That will be hard enough and plenty of heartache along the way. Go to college, join the military, Go to Alaska and try working on 1 of those deadliest catch boats. Go to Montana and work on a ranch for a few years ... your 19 nothing but oppertunity.
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I beat y'all by a day. My gf of a year dumped me saturday. I figger I'm 22 and didn't wanna be tied down anyway.Originally posted by millman View PostComment
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Just tell her the truth and say you are sorry. If it does not work out, then it is because there is someone even better just waiting for you around the corner. Pray about it too, as it can never hurt.Comment
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Some have said 19 is too young to be tied down I some what agree and disagree. My wife and I met on the school bus when I was a sophmore and she was a freshman. We started dating the following year and have been together for the most part ever since (11 years).
Being a guy (read: stupid and dumb) made some immature choices and broke up with her 1 time and then broke off our first engagement after my second deployment. Now at that point we had been through 2 combat deployments together - we were attending different schools 120 miles apart. We had been through the ringer - but I took care of my end and after working things out we got back together.
We just celebrated our 3 year wedding anniv. in June and we have an awesome 20 month old son. IMVHO the key to being in a relationship at your age is both having space to grow and mature - my wife and I were lucky that we were able to grow and mature as individuals as well as a couple (makes for some difficult times) but it is necessary - you may find that yall are not compatible becuase of the maturing and growing as an individual.
Don't worry about the age thing, but don't hold on to a relationship because it is familiar if you are growing apart. Now, in regards to you being a jerk - been there done that. You have to make the change - if it is stuff that she does that bothers you and you handle it poorly - work on yourself and let her know "this is what is bothering me, I handle it poorly and I will work on it, are you willing to work on ____" assuming it is something that can be improved upon. If you love her and want to be with her just tell her so but most importantly, show her!
So, grow up, pray about it, apologize, and show her!
Good luck!Comment
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In the great words of a respected 80s philosopher: "Girl, don't go away mad, girl, just go away."
Hang tough and worry about more important things--you're 19!Comment
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why in the hail would you want a girlfriend at 19 bro?
don't pick one until you've tried them all!Comment
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good luckComment
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Wait to talk to her until after Christmas. All the money you will save on presents will buy you a really nice new bow. Don't forget to get a good case for it.Comment
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Man what i would do for a chance like this again....LOL Time to try out some new hunting partnersComment
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Just man up and apologize or move on. Your probably better off movin on, because it will happen again and the next time their might be kids involved. Been there done that.Comment
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Just remember. If you do get her back, odds are she will be your future ex-wife
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I think its not worth it because one yall already broke up. Two yall broke up for a reason (being a jerk). Three if yall do get back together its not gonna work because the same things gonna happen again and again. If she wants to try to reconcile then yes it may work but until she realizes that I wouldnt bother with her right now. Just leave her be until she realizes she misses you or she got over you already.Comment
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Something about never being able to satisfy what a woman looking for in a man...read this...
Husband Store
A store that sells new husbands has opened in New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:
You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads:
Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs
She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:
Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.
'That's nice,' she thinks, 'but I want more.'
So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking.
'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework.
'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!'
Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.
She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. (scroll and keep reading!)
PLEASE NOTE:
To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store just across the street.
The first floor has wives that love sex..
T he second floor has wives that love sex and have money and like beer.
The third, fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited.Comment
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My advise if like many others here, RUN and find a new one..... They are a dime a dozen at that age, "MOST" dont have kids and no worrys, go have fun...Comment
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