Guys i need some help...

[takarge]

Well I'm 19 years old and my girlfriend and I broke up last sunday. Were suppose to sit down next monday and talk about the situation and if we want to get back together. But let me give you some history first. I've known her for 10 years we've dated for a year. Had some of the best times of my life with this girl and now I don't know what to do. We broke because I honestly admit i was being a jerk. What do i say to her to get her back? I love and miss her so much and don't know how to function without her. but i just need some kind of advice on what to say. I know i screwed up but i know that ain't what she wants to hear. So well come on guys (and galls) what should I do or say to win her heart back?




Thanks to all who reply, TK

[kfd82]

Let it go, you're 19. Play the field and have FUN!

[Trinidad434]

Give her space shell come back if she really loves you. Dont pressure her .

[Sippy]

sounds like you really ****** her off , me and tiffany have been together almost 3 years and i still dont know what to do

hope all works out

[Mudslinger]

Take KFd82's advice. You are too young to be heartbroken over this girl. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Apologize to her and if she feels about you the way you do about her, then things will work out, but don't make a big deal of it. there is a lot more fish in the sea.

[Nitro1970]

When one say's "scat cat" there's one somewhere calling "here kitty kitty"

[Landrover]

Non issue.......LIFE has not even started yet for either of you guys!

[TexasRednekChic]

Live, love, and learn...... If its meant to be it will be. Don't pressure her, I know you might hurt for a while but you are still young give it time and see what happens. Just let her know that if she needs anything in the future you will be there for her and maybe you both will find out if yall are really meant to be together. Life can be tough, be there done that, I may still be young but I have been through more than some adults have ever been through. Just keep it light between you two with no pressure. If God didn't want you to do it he would have stopped you. Something greater than your plans was taking control, just ride it out and see what's in store for the future. When you sit down with her just tell you are there for her when she needs help and you will be friends and when the time comes you will know if its right or not. Good Luck Man!

[D-Money]

You might ask yourself if you really want to be with her or just like the idea of her. If you're having the same fight over and over again, it's probably time to move on. The other guys on here have a point too, you're 19 and you have no idea what's ahead of you, there are TONS of women out there and you'll find one. Give her space and see if she comes running back, if not let her go.

[Stan R]

If you are really serious.. go and meet her and LISTEN, LISTEN and LISTEN some more before you say anything. Then think with your brain before you talk. At 19 this process could happen several times before the right one finds you. Oh stop being a jerk!

[TX_Phil]

sounds like you really ****** her off , me and tiffany have been together almost 3 years and i still dont know what to do

hope all works out

Now that's funny right there!!
Been married 24yrs this month I still have no clue. Just ask my wife she will confirm it!!

[glen]

wait until after deer season to talk to her is my best advice.

[Ricky J]

This year will be 18 years and she is just now starting to like me, so give it time, if it's meant to be it will be.

[Brett A]

I agree...19 is very young to be tied down. Go out there and live a little. If she really loves you, you will find out as soon as another girl enters the picture. If she doesn't, another girl will still be entering the picture.

[MattL]

Forget about her and go to college!!!!!!!!!!