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    #61
    What I have done many, many times over the years with kids (my kids, grandkids, friend's kids, etc.) is as you have done; first of all make sure they enjoy shooting the gun first... Get as good hearing protection as you can afford, preferably electronic so you can talk to her when she's shooting or getting ready to shoot... Them make sure she can mount the gun comfortably. I use an AR-15 platform with the adjustable stock mounted atop a fluid ball head on an adjustable lightweight carbon fiber tripod. This is the case whether shooting targets or at animals. Again, make it fun for them while at the same time teaching them gun safety and such... Next thing is to make sure they have a comfortable place to sit assuming they will be shooting sitting. Have an adjustable chair, preferably one without arms or if it has arms, ones that just stick out from the side or back of the chair that they can slide their legs under... I teach them to "get comfortable" for them, no matter what it looks like. I show them that a triangle rest is the most steady... gun firmly in the cheek weld, mounted in the tripod, and trigger hand elbow resting on "something solid"... I suggest sitting sideways in the chair or at an angle so they can aim the rifle and rest their elbow on the back of the chair or the chair arm... Then if they have trouble actually shooting an animal, I put an archery 3D target of a deer out front and stick an orange sticky target dot where I want them to aim/shoot. Let them shoot that target from the stand if at all possible...


    A sort of new twist I've used on both my grandsons the past few years as they got started actually going with "Poppa" hunting is I have taught them to use the vertical crosshair and line it up with the front leg when the animal is perfectly broad side, then put the horizontal just below the centerline of the deer and squeeeeze the trigger... Once they began actually shooting animals, we have been 100% successful in a dead animal using this method... The other thing I've started using just this year is allowing a quartering away shot... I tell them if they can see both front legs, line the vertical crosshair up half way between the legs and put the horizontal crosshair in the same place as usual... They're 3 for 3 thus far this year, with one of those shots being with a crossbow/scope...


    One factor you may want to consider is making sure she understands EXACTLY where she should aim/shoot... When I was growing up, and even on here a lot, I hear "shoot 'em right behind the shoulder"... To a youngster that is just learning, that's still a pretty ambiguous term... They will understand, "line the up n down crosshair with the front leg and put the left n right crosshair half way up"... Between that and good hearing protection, I think that has been the two most successful factors in my being able to teach my grandsons to shoot (worked perfect for my son too many years ago).

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      #62
      Just be happy that she's interested in going. I think it is good that she is aware of the potential repercussions.

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        #63
        She ain’t ready. And sounds like she just likes to spend time with dad. It’ll come….let her take her own pace

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          #64
          I've been shooting critters for most of my life, but I stumbled across this and found it informative.

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            #65
            I dealt with a similar situation when teaching my son and Godson how to shoot. They had no problems punching normal paper targets, but live animals induced target panic. I started ordering animal targets to practice on and get used to seeing the species they're after. If shooting range access is limited printing pictures from the internet and using a 22 lr at 25 & 50 yards works too.

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              #66
              You need to leave her allow, hunting is not for everyone. I know it's not something you want to hear.

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                #67
                I did not read all the above comments and someone may have already eluded to this fact. But I raised two daughters and my oldest sounds exactly like yours. Sit back and take a deep breath, here it goes....... my oldest to this day (25) still has never pulled the trigger on an animal. She just could not get over the thought of everything not going perfect and the animal suffer. Took me a tad to except this and move on, but in the over all scheme of it all, its pretty minuscule. And this coming from a extreme hunting fool!

                P.S. my youngest daughter and son or killing machines so I did bat .666!~

                Have a great one.

                Rwc
                Last edited by Rwc; 12-01-2022, 08:12 AM.

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                  #68
                  Don't push it! My son will not shoot a deer but will kill a pig or squirrel in a heartbeat! My daughter is the opposite, she will kill a deer twice on Sunday.

                  I remember being terrified of gutting a deer until I did a few small game critters. Therefore I wouldn't pull the trigger on a deer.
                  Last edited by krtnorris; 12-01-2022, 07:33 AM.

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                    #69
                    Enjoy your time together...If she wants to kill..if she don't its OK.... Time Spent Together is what its about....

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                      #70
                      If you know another female hunter, let your daughter watch her shoot. My daughters friend was scared to shoot till she watched my daughter kill a deer.

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                        #71
                        Rancher who taught me to shoot deer in 1963 took me for a drive in the pasture in his truck to shoot armadillos with his .222 scoped Remington. Low recoil, light weight, kid sized. A Caldwell Dead shot tripod for practice and shooting from a ground blind would build confidence, as well as using a smaller caliber rifle like a 22-250 or 243.

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                          #72
                          Counting to three in a stern voice usually motivates my daughters to complete my desired action.

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                            #73
                            Some kids just aren't into it...may not be what you want to hear, but it's the truth. Just enjoy the fact that she wants to spend time in the outdoors with you

                            Our kids are all different. My oldest son is eat up with all things fishing and hunting. As soon as school lets out, he's headed to one of 3 places he has permission to hunt. He hand corns each spot, has trail cams out to keep up to date with the movement and find out what is coming to the corn, loves everything about it...and gets serious buck fever I had to work on him a lot, with breathing techniques and taking his time when he was younger, and periodically we have a "refresher" talk

                            My youngest daughter is a stone cold killer from the first time she sat in the stand, she was ready to lay em OUT! however, she is good to go with the first deer I give the green light on, and is done for the season after that...and doesn't care one iota about what is coming around that might be bigger

                            My youngest son went once, killed a doe, and said "that was neat" and has never gone again. I've asked, and he said "I may go again someday, just not this year". But hand him some ammo, and he'll take his .22 Heritage pistol and his Henry .357 lever action and be gone at the "range" behind the house until the ammo runs out. He loves shooting...just doesn't have any desire to kill a deer

                            Enjoy the time spent with your kids...and let them move at their own pace when it comes to killing something. It may never happen...that isn't the end of the world

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