Divorced again a year or so ago ( took like a year to get divorced, so been single about 2yrs ). My youngest son, 15yo, lives with me.
So in about 2-1/2yrs I will be single, no kids at home at 49yo. Despite my divorces, I have had kids live with me for the past 22yrs.
I do occasionally get lonely, but really not bad at all, especially with what I have been through, so most likely will be single the rest of my life.
So then what? That may sound kind of dumb, but the last half of my life has primarily been devoted to raising my kids. Not that I was particularly good at it, but in the end, my base reason for everything was to provide for them.
So now I have a little bit of money and will soon be free. I fear my drive will be gone once my son moves out. Or maybe thats ok? Maybe it will be time to coast? To take it easy and just live?
I dont know. Any advice from those that have been there?
So in about 2-1/2yrs I will be single, no kids at home at 49yo. Despite my divorces, I have had kids live with me for the past 22yrs.
I do occasionally get lonely, but really not bad at all, especially with what I have been through, so most likely will be single the rest of my life.
So then what? That may sound kind of dumb, but the last half of my life has primarily been devoted to raising my kids. Not that I was particularly good at it, but in the end, my base reason for everything was to provide for them.
So now I have a little bit of money and will soon be free. I fear my drive will be gone once my son moves out. Or maybe thats ok? Maybe it will be time to coast? To take it easy and just live?
I dont know. Any advice from those that have been there?
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