Loved to go to weddings as a kid, especially the country weddings. Always ended up playing football, or hide and seek if nobody brought a football, outside for hours.
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Originally posted by friscopaint View PostWe own a venue and see out of control unsupervised kids all the time. This Saturday kids messed up grooms cake.....2 different kids, wife was able to somewhat salvage their cake after first one but 2nd one really ruined it.....not sure why people think its fine for kids to run wild, especially at wedding receptions. Groom had a special shiner beer cake made......
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I hate seeing weddings where the kids are not invited. It ****** off the families that have kids so none of them go. I guarantee you the couples that want their perfect wedding without kids will probably be divorced after the kids and problems arrive instead of working through it. Kids should be mandatory at weddings to remind the couples what they are getting into.
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My sister pulled the no kids allowed at her wedding in Maryland last year. Just happened that my kids were the only ones really impacted. Told her if my kids weren't welcome, I wouldn't be going either. I've spoken to her about twice since and never spoken to her husband.
Absolutely ridiculous. Weddings are a family event that well-behaved kids, esp family, should be invited to. It ticked me off then and I'm still mad about it. My 12 year old daughter was devastated.
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The problem I see on too many occasions in an environment like this is people tend to party too hard forgetting their kids are even there in the first place. Or get to a state of mind from the beverages that they don’t care. My wife and I have never understood how parents can equally intoxicate themselves knowing good and well they have kids present and are their responsibility.
If my wife and I want to have a good time, we leave the kids with someone else for the night. If the kids are with us, we stay sober and keep our priorities in line.
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Originally posted by Clay6x45 View PostI hate seeing weddings where the kids are not invited. It ****** off the families that have kids so none of them go. I guarantee you the couples that want their perfect wedding without kids will probably be divorced after the kids and problems arrive instead of working through it. Kids should be mandatory at weddings to remind the couples what they are getting into.
My wife and I didn't have a single friend or family member not attend our wedding because their kids weren't invited. Somehow though, even against your anticipated outcome, we are still happily married, and we've been through some tough time's I wouldn't wish upon anyone. But sure, go ahead and lump everyone that wants a memorable evening without having to worry about some punk kid and their irresponsible parents into one pool of so called inevitable failure.
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Originally posted by Sleepy View PostThe problem I see on too many occasions in an environment like this is people tend to party too hard forgetting their kids are even there in the first place. Or get to a state of mind from the beverages that they don’t care. My wife and I have never understood how parents can equally intoxicate themselves knowing good and well they have kids present and are their responsibility.
If my wife and I want to have a good time, we leave the kids with someone else for the night. If the kids are with us, we stay sober and keep our priorities in line.
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QUOTE=BowhunterB;16278823]Loved to go to weddings as a kid, especially the country weddings. Always ended up playing football, or hide and seek if nobody brought a football, outside for hours.[/QUOTE]
I’ve been to about 14 weddings in my life and most of them friends and relatives in a country setting. In September we were invited to another and they specified no kids and I respect that. I won’t be attending. If my kids can’t be in their presence then they can’t be in mine…city folk trying to be country…
Basically my view on the matter is if you can’t control your own kids I’d see why they’d implement such measures. You just can’t paint everyone else’s kids/parenting with that same brush!
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