first and only marriage started at 26 a little older than most,, 23 years later it still works and is good.. the advice about church and all is the best you will ever get... get in and stay in even if you have to change churchs a few times it will help.... something I learned a long time ago
many people say that a marriage is 50-50 its not and can not be.. the bible says the man is head of the house you must be for it to work.. doesnt mean making every decision though.. it means giving in many times just because she wants it... the best marriage arraignment is 51-49.. trust her decisions and dont get bent out of shape when something goes wrong,, all of yours wont be right either.... when she wrecks the car ask if shes allright and say ouch that musta hurt and let it go, getting mad wont make it go away or any easier to pay the repair bill.. do your part to raise your kids including keeping them when their babies and she needs to go to the store or get away a few hours with her friends....
when I got married I told my wife there were a few things that were not nor would ever be debatable... primarily what I wanted or need for work, ( as police officer) If i needed a new duty weapon a new vest, shoes or anything I could or would use for work and not to ever say anything about it ... she accepted it and I didn't abuse it...
the most important thing of all... when you give her your word to do something keep it!!!!!!!!!!!!! then you have the right to expect the same from her...good luck and God bless you like he has me!!
only three arguments in 23 years.... i'm ahead of the curve!!!
many people say that a marriage is 50-50 its not and can not be.. the bible says the man is head of the house you must be for it to work.. doesnt mean making every decision though.. it means giving in many times just because she wants it... the best marriage arraignment is 51-49.. trust her decisions and dont get bent out of shape when something goes wrong,, all of yours wont be right either.... when she wrecks the car ask if shes allright and say ouch that musta hurt and let it go, getting mad wont make it go away or any easier to pay the repair bill.. do your part to raise your kids including keeping them when their babies and she needs to go to the store or get away a few hours with her friends....
when I got married I told my wife there were a few things that were not nor would ever be debatable... primarily what I wanted or need for work, ( as police officer) If i needed a new duty weapon a new vest, shoes or anything I could or would use for work and not to ever say anything about it ... she accepted it and I didn't abuse it...
the most important thing of all... when you give her your word to do something keep it!!!!!!!!!!!!! then you have the right to expect the same from her...good luck and God bless you like he has me!!
only three arguments in 23 years.... i'm ahead of the curve!!!
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