Some may be familiar with my issues in the past years. I hate to air all this out publically but need a friend right now. Been married 13yrs. She has left 3 times but I held on to my commitment since as far as I know she never cheated. Last time.she was gone 2yrs. We reconciled and she came back maybe 8mo ago. We have a son and stepdaughter ( her daughter ). She decided to become a flight attendant and went to training in Oct. I have been taking care of the kids. She is gone 18-20 days a month.
Over the years I have asked her to never cheat, if she wants someone else to just let me know. Been cheated on before. She always agreed she never would.
Saw changes in the last few months and gently prodded her. She finally told me Tuesday that she doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce.
Found out today that she has cheated, and also told other people ( many months ago ) that after her daughter moved out that she is going to divorce me.
So the whole time she has been using me. I'm a safe harbor. Babysitter. Bill payer. Only came back so she could go pursue her career while I take the kids.
And cheated on top of it all.
Hurt and betrayed. Devastated. Tried so hard to make it work. To give her what she wanted. To let her fulfill her dreams
I'm just livid.
Over the years I have asked her to never cheat, if she wants someone else to just let me know. Been cheated on before. She always agreed she never would.
Saw changes in the last few months and gently prodded her. She finally told me Tuesday that she doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce.
Found out today that she has cheated, and also told other people ( many months ago ) that after her daughter moved out that she is going to divorce me.
So the whole time she has been using me. I'm a safe harbor. Babysitter. Bill payer. Only came back so she could go pursue her career while I take the kids.
And cheated on top of it all.
Hurt and betrayed. Devastated. Tried so hard to make it work. To give her what she wanted. To let her fulfill her dreams
I'm just livid.
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