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Originally posted by Gunnyart View PostMy BIL just spilled the beans that apparently my wife is planning a 50th Birthday party for me.
He obviously didn't know it was a secret so I can't blame him but my wife is going to be absolutely crushed because this is the first time she's tried to throw a party for me which is a really big deal for her to pull it off. (she is self conscious about never being able to surprise me.)
I'd lay the odds that word gets back to her that I know are about 50/50.
I really want my wife to enjoy this "victory" of FINALLY after almost 28 years of marriage managing to surprise me.
I'm really torn up (for her) over this.
Do I:
Play stupid and act surprised and run the risk she finds out I know...
or
Lavish praise on her for the effort and end all pretense?
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Originally posted by Tommyh View Postdo you know what all she is planning, as in details, are are you just aware that she is "going all out"? on something for you? there is a difference, and you can still be surprised by what she chooses to do. its all perspective my man.
Yup exactly this...no reason to ruin it all if for her. Even if you find out a partial snippet, there are all kinds of things to be surprised about. She's going out of her way to do something special for you so we can put any "morality" stuff aside for a night....Last edited by Smart; 01-10-2018, 12:16 PM.
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