I need some support.....

[em12]

Gentleman thank you for the prayers. I appreciate all of the kind words. As many have said sometimes life is hard, and I fully understand that. I’m not bitter at all, we knew what to expect, she weighed less the day my son was born than the day she got pregnant.... it was nuts. I’ve thought about seeking some outside help for cleaning and such, we have a very tight small group at church that we are heavily involved in and I have reached out to them letting them know that we could use a little support right now. And they will give us whatever we need and have already started discussing how to help. Sometimes the hardest part is asking for the help, even though we’d offer it to anyone in our lives every chance we get.

Jake thank you very much for the offer, well done sir and I genuinely appreciate it.

Curt, your right, I don’t need to worry about doing things the way she does them, and honestly I couldn’t anyway...... lol. I’m just focusing on getting **** done and keeping life rolling.....

We’re due the end of April, and it’s a long road ahead, but I will get it done, and this phase will too pass. And you are all very right about how I will be able to hold my head high when it’s done and know that I did my part the very best I could. I will always be able to be proud of that.

I feel better now that I have talked about it, and that I’ve talked to our small group about it, it’s nice to not feel alone in a struggle. A weight is lifted off of my shoulders knowing that I have people that care. Thanks guys.

[mikemorvan]

Wholly lean on Jesus name. One day at a time.

[manwitaplan]

Gentleman thank you for the prayers. I appreciate all of the kind words. As many have said sometimes life is hard, and I fully understand that. I’m not bitter at all, we knew what to expect, she weighed less the day my son was born than the day she got pregnant.... it was nuts. I’ve thought about seeking some outside help for cleaning and such, we have a very tight small group at church that we are heavily involved in and I have reached out to them letting them know that we could use a little support right now. And they will give us whatever we need and have already started discussing how to help. Sometimes the hardest part is asking for the help, even though we’d offer it to anyone in our lives every chance we get.

Jake thank you very much for the offer, well done sir and I genuinely appreciate it.

Curt, your right, I don’t need to worry about doing things the way she does them, and honestly I couldn’t anyway...... lol. I’m just focusing on getting **** done and keeping life rolling.....

We’re due the end of April, and it’s a long road ahead, but I will get it done, and this phase will too pass. And you are all very right about how I will be able to hold my head high when it’s done and know that I did my part the very best I could. I will always be able to be proud of that.

I feel better now that I have talked about it, and that I’ve talked to our small group about it, it’s nice to not feel alone in a struggle. A weight is lifted off of my shoulders knowing that I have people that care. Thanks guys.

Excellent post!

It takes a bigger man to come onto a public forum and ask for support! You can handle this and sounds like you are on the right track.

Keep going and stay positive.

[mpotts]

keep your head up. I'm in the Waco area if you need something. God bless

[Dusty Britches]

May God give you strength, courage, and patience. Being a caregiver is tough. I totally get it. Take some alone time - 5 minutes every couple of hrs, take a deep breath, and exhale slowly, telling yourself to relax. Breathe in, breathe out.

[Stick-Launcher]

There are some serious nuggets of wisdom in here... Lean on the Lord and make it one day to the next...

I honestly could see this making your marriage stronger... Your wife will be in amazement at how well you have done enduring this... I will be praying for you.