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    A Son in Trouble....My Time to Ask..Prayers

    I have read so many posts on all the forums, prayers needed, classifieds, all the one's that mean something to us in various ways. I'm not religious, but spiritual and have experienced the power of prayers in my long life....

    Just felt compelled to share something I've never faced...."When your Son is getting divorced," but he has potential mental problems to be faced.

    Brought back memories of past experiences I had over the years...my children wondering why Dad was leaving, were they to blame, why have Mom & Dad gone their separate ways? Will the hurt and anger ever subside?

    There were those days long past when my son's and I went hunting together with their Grand Father who is deceased, but their mom was not part of our hunt anymore. They heard the arguments, sometimes took sides, but my ex and I mostly managed not to say "too" many bad things about each other. We are cordial to each other anytime some family event brings us together. Perhaps we both finally grew up and buried the pains.

    Now my oldest son, cried today about his two kids being gone...at least half the time? Some family members are involved and from experience I have told them to stay out of it! Memories are shattered and the future is not set yet.

    It's just a Deja Vu...for me...can't do much but "tear up" and hope my son can defeat his demons....all I hear is 2nd hand information from his brother, other family, ex to be and of course him. As an ex LEO I could deal with those is distress...I had an easy out...break the law and you go to jail! I felt empathy for many over the years...others...well you made your decision now suffer the consequences. But now it's on my, our family and the love I will always have for my oldest son...of course all 3 of them.

    So, it's tough love as I told him today...get your act together, change and survive. I'll always love you, defend you, give my life for you...but YOU have to change and conquer your demons....if you don't, the future is not in your favor. He's educated, has his own IT company, but all of that does not matter when rational becomes irrational.

    Physical disease has a much more better outcome than those afflictions that our mind endures. My love for him will never falter, but patience will. So my ONE and ONLY time to ask....send a prayer his way....he's not a TBH member, but needs intervention to pave the way for a better life......

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    Prayers sent. Ask anytime. Prayer is always a good thing!!!


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      #3
      Praying for your son and his family.

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        #4
        I am praying for your son and his family.

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          #5
          Prayers up for your son and family.

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            #6
            Prayers for the whole family.

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              #7
              Sending up a prayer for all involved. Divorce is a tough challenge.

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                #8
                Prayers sent!

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                  #9
                  Prayers up. I hope everything works out ok for you son and you family.

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                    #10
                    Kuma, I know some of what you speak... In my son's case, there was no kid(s) involved, but he never was able to get it all sorted out, so he took the easy way out. I will fervently pray for divine intervention for your son, you and your whole family. You are right to stand on your principles and stand your ground, BUT you stay close to him. He must know beyond the shadow of a doubt that you are there and close.

                    Lord God, we come to You just now praising You and thanking You for the gift of Your Son that gave us all the direct access to Your awesome power to fulfill our every need. We thank You for Your never-ceasing, never-changing love for us. We come to You in this hour of need. We ask You Lord to guide and protect Kuma and his son. Give them wisdom to make the right decisions as they all go forward. Lord if it is within Your will, we ask You to heal this strained marriage as we know You abhor divorce, but we also know that sometimes there is just an end to things. Whichever this goes, Lord give Kuma's son strength to persevere and stay strong. Preserve his love for his kids, and preserve his kid's love for him in such a way as it will never waiver between them. Show him that those kids are his strength and the reason he has been blessed by You with them Lord. We ask for peace and comfort for them through all this. Bathe this family in Your Agape Love as they heal and recover physically, mentally and spiritually. We ask these things in the powerful name of Your Son, Jesus our Lord. Amen.

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                      #11
                      Prayers sent.

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                        #12
                        The hardest thing about divorce is the unknown future for all involved.

                        Prayers going up for him and his family.

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                          #13
                          Prayers sent.

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                            #14
                            Done....

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                              #15
                              Prayers sent

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