Our 29th anniversary is next month. Know that arguments are inevitable. How you handle them can have a long term impact on your relationship. When things get heated both parties must suppress the urge to throw out personal "zingers". You know your spouse better than anyone - their insecurities and things they don't like about themselves, so you know exactly where to stick the knife. Don't do it! In the heat of the moment it is easy to say something you can never take back. Also, there is great power in coming back after a disagreement and saying "I've thought about it, you were right and I was wrong"
Your household division of labor will evolve over time. There may be some simple chore that your wife just does not like to do for some reason. You may not like it either but if you suck it up and put that task on your side of the ledger it scores many points
Your household division of labor will evolve over time. There may be some simple chore that your wife just does not like to do for some reason. You may not like it either but if you suck it up and put that task on your side of the ledger it scores many points
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