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    'Sir' is rude???

    So, a couple years ago I had a client, from Minnesota, that I had called sir many times already, ask me why I kept calling him that. I explained that I was raised to call others sir because they are my elders and/or out of respect. And it's just good manners. He politely asked that I not call him that. I said "sure, no problem". Criosity got the best of me and I asked why he didn't want me to call him sir. He explained that it is "smart ***" where he's from and went on to say it was actually RUDE. Now this is a really nice, great guy and we've hunted together many times. So he wasn't being short with me or ****** or anything like that. He just explained. This blew my mind! but I let it go and we went on about our day.

    Fast forward about two years, a few weeks ago, I had another client tell me almost the same exact thing! He was from Wisconsin. He asked me a question, I answered "Yes sir, it is". He said "Why have you been calling us sir? It's kinda weird". And they all had a chuckle.

    So now not one but two "northerners" have told me calling someone else sir is basically rude. Am I alone on this or are these guys from like another planet? I mean, what is that about?!

    #2
    What do you expect, northerners ' I would not change the way you been raised to please the a suckers that's for sure.

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      #3
      Not rude but weird
      I have a admin asst who is twice my age that calls me sir.
      A grandmother even.

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        #4
        Well... they're not from Texas so... yeah. They're kinda like aliens

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          #5
          no sir...ya not alone....ya didn't have to explain anything past "Minnesota" & "Wisconsin"....

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            #6
            Not for older people. Sounds to me like you may have run into a regional quirk amongst a group of younger folks. I wouldn't let it bother me. They are the ones that are mistaken.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Crazy Horse View Post
              no sir...ya not alone....ya didn't have to explain anything past "Minnesota" & "Wisconsin"....
              Yep!

              Most northerners I've run across think it is rude or that you're being sarcastic when you say "mam" or "sir".

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                #8
                Originally posted by Split Arrow View Post
                Yep!

                Most northerners I've run across think it is rude or that you're being sarcastic when you say "mam" or "sir".
                Yep, it's happened to me

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                  #9
                  Yankees.

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                    #10
                    You ever listen to way northeners talk...potty mouth. I wouldn't consider them the formost authority in manners. Southern Gentleman is a term for a reason.

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                      #11
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                        #12
                        I say "sir" all the time and mean it with respect. However at the ripe old age of 41, I have had younger guys call me sir and it feels kinda weird. Probably because I still feel young st heart. Hahaha

                        You ain't doin nothin wrong. You sir are doin it right. Carry on.

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                          #13
                          Oh I'm gonna keep on keepin on. I've been talking this way for 30 sumthin years and don't plan on changing.

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                            #14
                            They'll get over it....if not....F-em!

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                              #15
                              I say it to people younger and older just the way I was raised.

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