Arguments and voice level.

[Mudslinger]

For the GS.

Is it possible to have a heated argument with the spouse without raising your voice? Another way to put it, can you have that argument like you are talking about normal happenings as a long time married couple?

[d_e_smith]

There's the "through gritted teeth" method & there's the "silent" method.

[hoythitman]

One sided maybe, I'm one of this people I pretty much never raise my voice. I can tear your *** and never get louder than normal voice. I use to do it to my exwife, I think it ****** her off more than if I would have been yelling.

[talltexasshoote]

Yep. It takes practice though. I really like knowing when she is mad at me. I never was good at reading between the lines.

[Deb]

Yep. It takes practice though. I really like knowing when she is mad at me. I never was good at reading between the lines.

Yep, it takes a lot of practice.

[Uncle Saggy]

Yes, it's possible

[Uncle Saggy]

To me, stating fact does not have to be yelled..... Facts are facts...... Just gotta learn not to push something if you can't back it up

[Tx_Wader]

Yep. It takes practice though.

Yup lol.

[Pullersboy]

Drives my wife nuts when I do this. She cannot do it at all. I can, but it doesn't always happen. About the time I realize I've raised my voice is when I walk away from the argument to get my "S" together before I try to articulate my argument in a more civilized manner.

[Speedgoat]

No, I can't do it.

[twobittxn]

I could argue with my ex in a completely normal tone of voice, and she would still accuse me of yelling at her.

My dad yelled. I don't.

[bklem]

No, I can't do it.

Honesty at its finest! ^^^^

I seriously THINK I don't raise my voice but my wife swears I do. I tend to believe she might be right. We are both teachers and hard headed Alpha's so that is not a great combo! After almost 27 years of marriage, we both acknowledge our weaknesses and certainly don't fight as much as we used to.

[Draco]

I've never raised my voice to my wife in the 35 years we've been married. I just can't do it.

[Hoggslayer]

My mother was very load. When my wife got to know her she said "so that's where you get it from".

[Dale Moser]

Arguments and voice level.

I talk louder when I get emphatic about something. I don't know I do it and I don't consider it raising my voice, but she does so I try not to.

If she heard me at work some times she'd know what raised voice is. I try not to do that but once or twice a year or so either.