I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for dealing with a divorce. Praying seems to help alot but maybe someone knows some tricks for getting through this. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated.
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Try and do something you enjoy, especially with friends or family, as often as you can. The fun will keep you from being too sad for a little while and the camraderie fo friends or family will keep you from the constant loneliness and take the bite off of some of the hurt. Been there, done that, and feel for you.
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I don't know, but I can imagine how difficult it would be. I know that prayer and time with God is the best thing for me whenever times get tough. Finding a way to be proactive and move forward past whatever the problem is is the other key. Sometimes it's hard to see the path past the problem, but that's where prayer (and usually a little patience) comes in. I always hate the "patience required" part.
Prayers sent for you.
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Been there, done that, it ain't easy,but remember no matter what it cost,NO MAN EVER LOSES IN A DIVORCE. You will survive, you will thrive, and you will grow. But when it's over and done, don't ever look back. You don't say if you have any kids, but if you do, you won't always be her husband,but you will always be their dad. Take care of them. Good luck and my prayers.
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main thing that helped me was when you figure out a LOT of people have been there and it isnt anything to be ashamed of....yall made a bad choice and it didnt work out....just have to get it taken care of and move on....main thing is dont dwell on it and STAY BUSY....find something you enjoy and get obsessed with it ....like said above some "strange" helps a lot too
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make 100 copies of Steve Holy's song- "I've got a brand new girlfriend" and send her a copy for every day she ****es you off!!!!!
Seriously, spend every minute getting ready for the up and coming season...shoot alot, spend some time with friends that share the same interest and before long it will be hunting season and you will have passed these times while being more prepared for the hunt than most likely any season before.Last edited by JGreen31; 07-24-2008, 11:30 PM.
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I feel for you bud. If you have kids its really hard because your gonna get to see her often and she will will probably have a man in her life so he will be in your kids life. Prayers for you. Just went thru it a year ago. I was playing the nice guy and thought everything was gonna be ok. She was being extra nice and telling me she just wanted me to take care of the kids. Let me tell you...don't believe everything you hear and half what you see.....her and her lawyer set me up big time......don't be nice, don't feel sorry for her. Get a good lawyer, it may cost but your gonna loose either way. Rather it go to a lawyer than her. if kids are involved try to get something set up, finacially, for them. Mine ripped me and I asked your to please put some of it up for the kids.....she said.....its not the kids money, its mine. But you know what, I'm still kickin and have met a heck of a nice lady, said I wouldn't do it but we can't live without them, life goes on. Keep your head up and go huntin. First thing I did was plan me a trip to Colorado. Hang in there and don't do anything stupid. Lots of people out here love you that you don't even know.
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