Need some advise

[Boyd1212]

We'll I set down with her and it ended up in a me yelling at her match. I found the last bank statements and looked them over. Found that for the last several months she has been paying her moms storage building and electric. And no telling how much cash she has been giving her as there is several ATM withdraws that I didn't make.
So now we have a plan that is going to work. She will be getting her own acct next week and will no longer have access to mine. And if she needs money before her pay day she will have to show me her bank statements before I will give her some. I'm tired of selling my stuff that I work hard for so she can pay her mothers bills. Her mother had a nice job making good pay but is to dang nosey and got fired because of it. She now has a part time job. Tried to explan to my wife that it doesn't make sense to put ourselves in debt to help her mother. She is the one that caused her problem. So now I'm the bad guy.

[expressfish]

the ol mother n law excuse......touch'e ground there. Mine is a p i t a too

[trophy8]

We'll I set down with her and it ended up in a me yelling at her match. I found the last bank statements and looked them over. Found that for the last several months she has been paying her moms storage building and electric. And no telling how much cash she has been giving her as there is several ATM withdraws that I didn't make.
So now we have a plan that is going to work. She will be getting her own acct next week and will no longer have access to mine. And if she needs money before her pay day she will have to show me her bank statements before I will give her some. I'm tired of selling my stuff that I work hard for so she can pay her mothers bills. Her mother had a nice job making good pay but is to dang nosey and got fired because of it. She now has a part time job. Tried to explan to my wife that it doesn't make sense to put ourselves in debt to help her mother. She is the one that caused her problem. So now I'm the bad guy.

ouch.... i have been there too.... my wife finally saw the light and we said no more....

hope it works out for yall!!

[gusman]

Split it up....it works for us

[yaqui]

We'll I set down with her and it ended up in a me yelling at her match. I found the last bank statements and looked them over. Found that for the last several months she has been paying her moms storage building and electric. And no telling how much cash she has been giving her as there is several ATM withdraws that I didn't make.
So now we have a plan that is going to work. She will be getting her own acct next week and will no longer have access to mine. And if she needs money before her pay day she will have to show me her bank statements before I will give her some. I'm tired of selling my stuff that I work hard for so she can pay her mothers bills. Her mother had a nice job making good pay but is to dang nosey and got fired because of it. She now has a part time job. Tried to explan to my wife that it doesn't make sense to put ourselves in debt to help her mother. She is the one that caused her problem. So now I'm the bad guy.

She should have been up front and honest with you, not your fault.