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    Toughest man I know.. Long read

    I always knew my dad was a tough son of a gun.. I watched him do all sorts of crazy things when I was growin up. Nail his hand to the wall with the nail gun, drill holes thru the kitchen table helpin me build stuff for school projects. Haha. I've seen this man cry 1 time in my entire life and that was when my nana (his mom passed) He was so upset that I was in Afghanistan and couldn't make the funeral. Anyways, dad got cancer right around the same time my little sister was born in '94. Lung and testicular.. Bad news. He actually died 3 times on the operating table but the doctors were able to bring him back. They had to remove one testical and part of a lung but he pulled thru. Never once did I hear him complain or gripe about how unfair or painful any of this was. Then, about the middle of last year dad called me up and said he had some bad news.. My heart sank. Said "the doctors found more cancer bud.. I'm sorry" Blew me away that he apologized to me for him having cancer.. This time he's got kidney and melanoma cancer. Took out his kidney and he's fighting with the melanoma now. The interferon (I think thats how it's spelled) shots he has to get weekly are kickin his butt but he won't admit it. We all know tho. He has to sit down and catch his breath for 20 min after getting up to go to the bathroom. Again tho, I've never heard him complain about it. When people ask him how he's doing he says "Well, the good Lord let me have another morning so I'd say I'm doin pretty darn good." My dad is my best friend in this entire world. He got me thru my divorce and my last deployment to Afghanistan. Both were going on at the same time. If dad hadn't been there I'd be a mess right now. We don't know how many days/weeks/months/years dad has left but everyday when I call him is another blessing. Dad has helped me thru so many things and now I get to return the favor as best as I can. It'll never be enough for me bc in my mind I owe him everything, but he can bet I'll give it my all. If people see me as half the man my daddy is then I'm doin pretty good. Sorry for the long read, I just had I brag on my hero. Thanks for reading.

    Andy

    #2
    Prayers going up for both of you. I don't know how I'd take it if I got that kind of news.

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      #3
      I will keep him and your family in my prayers!

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        #4
        Thanks for the prayers fellas. His name is Gary Matthews and I know he'll appreciate the thoughts and prayers

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          #5
          Prayers up for your dad bud.

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            #6
            Thanks for posting Andy, sounds like your Dad is definitely one heck of a man. Will be praying for you both, may the healing hand of our God be upon your Dad and may He cover you with His peace and comfort.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Tmag View Post
              Thanks for posting Andy, sounds like your Dad is definitely one heck of a man. Will be praying for you both, may the healing hand of our God be upon your Dad and may He cover you with His peace and comfort.
              Thanks Tmag

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                #8
                Prayers for your dad,you and family.

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                  #9
                  Thanks for all the prayers guys

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                    #10
                    Your dad sounds just like mine (minus the cancer). I lost my dad Jan. 26 2006 to a heart attack. Not a day goes by that I don't miss him, but I know he is guiding me through this maze I call a life.

                    I just wish he would have been there when I got married (died 6 weeks before my wedding) and to see his 3 grandkids. Prayers for you and your dad.

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                      #11
                      Prayers up for your Dad.

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                        #12
                        Prayers up for you, your Dad and your family.

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Tmag View Post
                          Thanks for posting Andy, sounds like your Dad is definitely one heck of a man. Will be praying for you both, may the healing hand of our God be upon your Dad and may He cover you with His peace and comfort.
                          Amen.

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Tmag View Post
                            Thanks for posting Andy, sounds like your Dad is definitely one heck of a man. Will be praying for you both, may the healing hand of our God be upon your Dad and may He cover you with His peace and comfort.
                            Amen. Can't think of anything better to say Tmag. Ill be praying as well, Andy.

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                              #15
                              Prayers sent up for you and your dad sounds like one heck of a man

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