need some advice

[TX_bowhunter37]

I have 3 kids ages 16 14 12 back in April i lost my case to get full custody of the kids. Well the issue i have is that in our parenting plan its says a parent can not hinder its comunication with the other parent i have called her cell phone like i have done in the past to talk to my kids now every time i all it goes to voicemail i say please have the kids call me today or tomorrow i only had 1 call back i have emailed her told her of my concerns says she will ork at it harder but just all talk ..

I know her phone is working because i can see her facebook updates from it. She does not kwo i can see her facebook page its how i stay up to date with my kids because she does not tell me anything

My question is should i tell my kids i am calling them and thier mother is not letting them?

[pigstika1978]

I would call your attourney

[TX_bowhunter37]

she is aware of it wants to do a order to show cause.. personally its aa waste of money they will just slap her on the wrist I have to go to new mexico because that where we got divorced at. that state just plain stupid

[Cam-Mac]

No dont tell your kids anything about their mom. Call your attorney.

[jlptexashunter]

I bought my kids phones. Just a thought....$20 ish to give them a phone where the oldest is responsible for it and you can call then when you like.

[TX_bowhunter37]

Like i said i have already done that will email my x a few more time to show the court that i am trying but Its just a waste of money and time

[TX_bowhunter37]

I bought my kids phones. Just a thought....$20 ish to give them a phone where the oldest is responsible for it and you can call then when you like.

They used to have thier own but they lost and broken thiers they have replaced them about 2 times each lol when my son decided to live with me for a year he had his own phone took care of it because we made him

[AndyRealtree]

I would call your attourney

Yup

[arrowdiger]

Buy your kids a phone.

[Txpepper]

No dont tell your kids anything about their mom. Call your attorney.

This!!!

[Bowstrider13]

Tell your attorney and make sure to record all the dates you call and leave messages, also if you get a phone record of when you called is good also write letters them plus you said 16 14 12 on age do they not have Facebook pages or emails themselves contact them that way and ask them to call you if she does not let them that is more things for your attorney to work with

[Bowstrider13]

she is aware of it wants to do a order to show cause.. personally its aa waste of money they will just slap her on the wrist I have to go to new mexico because that where we got divorced at. that state just plain stupid

Where does you X live where the kids are where jurisdiction is on custody.

[law1piv]

I hate when a one parrent does this the other I went through it for 19 years and I thinkl it is Bull****

[Captain C]

I have similar problems with my ex. I text her every evening and ask her to have the children call me. I am lucky if I get one call a week in between my visitation. I bought a phone for my oldest and it somehow gets lost when they are with her and magically appears when they come to my house. It is a tough situation and I struggled with telling my children or not. I decided to tell them because I wanted them to know that I wanted to talk to them every day. I didn't bash their mother. I just told them that I text their mother every evening and ask her to have them call me. There isn't much you can do legally but save every text and document everything. If you have to return to court for anything, you can address this issue as well. I am a firm believer that the truth always comes out and if you keep doing the right thing it will pay off eventually.

[lesson 101]

Sounds like contempt of court. Might just get a slap on the wrist but after a few times could face up to 6 month in jail.... judges dont like to be made a fool of ... That should be a wake up call for her. Mine went through the same thing but when my lawyer spoke to her about the contempt of court well.... no more problems since. I can speak them them 7 days a week. She will even let me get them when I want. good luck to you