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    Life decision - Need Prayers

    I am dealing with a great opportunity and at the same time a major change in my life. I am a recent graduate from Sam Houston state (last December). While in school during my sophomore - junior year I decided that I was going to join the army. Specifically, there is a competitive program called WOFT or Warrant Officer Flight Training, which if selected, would guarantee a flight slot. As long as I make it through training I would be an Army Rotary Wing Aviator. Since my decision over two years ago, I have been working on my paper work. I have dealt with delay after delay from mistakes my recruiter has made time after time. So literally, a process that should take no more than a year has taken me over two years. (there is a lot of information and requirements that go into your packet that takes time to put together as well) Everyone, from my Recruiters to the Officers that interviewed me said I am highly competitive and they would be shocked if I didn't make it. Well, two months ago it went to the final board were they look over my paper work and what others have recommended and make a "final" decision. This was July 17 and I was not selected. This was a major hit as my expectations were obviously different based off what I was told. So for the last two months I have been working on plan B's and looking at oil and gas jobs with the intention of joining the reserves. I have been applying for job after job with no avail. I also started settling down with my wife and looking to establish ourselves within the community. That's when I get a call today from a Captain in the Army. He goes on to tell me that I was selected on the second board and I can sign my paper work as early as this Friday.
    After two years of disappointment's with the logistics of the army and dealing with delay after delay, it left a bad taste in my mouth. (My recruiter dropped the ball a couple of times which led to months of delays) The Idea of settling and establishing a family was growing in me. Now I am somewhat confused as to where to go from here. I talked to my wife and she is always supportive of any decision I choose to make and she knows it would be a great opportunity. We have always wanted to move to different areas and experience different things in life. But at the same time this is a 6 year commitment upon completion of about 2 years of training for a total of 8 years realistically of service.

    I know what a great chance this is in life but at the same time I am very close to my family as is my wife and 8 years is a long time from them.
    My wife and I our praying for guidance. We thought the first board decision was gods sign of a different path so now I am really stumped.

    Sorry for the long read and thanks for the prayers.

    Nick

    #2
    If thats what youre goal has been, then take it. They look and see how long it takes for you to complete your paperwork proubally. There are so many already enlisted that want to transfer over, they saw more drive in them, maybe? Once you sign and leave the office, you wont here from them again. You will just be another soldier in school to become a warrant officer. As an ex infantryman, I can tell you that the Combat support helicopters are amazing at what it really looks like from a on ground perspective. It will be a tough journey ahead, but you will be taken care of finnancially, bills for house are no longer there and you will be stationed in some really cool places. I did 8 years and some change and dont regret anything. Your other goals and Family do come first so its a big decision. ARMY equals tons of deployment time. Its hard on you mentally and physically. Good luck,

    p.s, I was 18 and single when this began. That was a whole new perspective to see some of my guys get taken from home for 15 months, but once there it was somewhat ok on them. Big decision to make.
    Last edited by wlfhound27; 09-11-2012, 11:40 AM.

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      #3
      Prayers sent

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        #4
        That's a tough decision Nick! But your heart was obviously in that chopper or else you wouldn't of put up with the beaurocracy for 2 years. I would almost view the board's decision reversal as the divine intervention you're looking for.

        Either way.......prayers are with you.

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          #5
          Sounds like what ever decision you make will not come due to lack of thought and prayer.

          "Where HE leads, I will follow"


          Praying for you brother.

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            #6
            Sounds like an awesome opportunity.
            Praying you hear clear instructions from the Lord.

            When you come to a crossroad in life,.......take it.

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              #7
              You believed the 1st "no" was Gods plan....maybe the 2nd "yes" is too? I say follow your dreams. If its something you really want to do, now is the time. Good luck whatever you decide.

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                #8
                If I were young again, that is the route I would take. I spent 8yrs in and the last 1.5 as a hometown recruiter. One thing I can tell you is that if you can deal with 8 weeks of mental abuse and another 8 of AIT, you'll be fine. The good training comes next. Mentally prepare yourself for being away from the family for at least the first 3-4 months. If the army guaranteed you that job, then you will get it. The Army is the only branch of all the armed forces that will guarantee you a specific job. All the others are just general catagories and jobs. I may have stayed if not for them trying to get me to lie to guys to get them in boots. Good luck with whatever decision you make.

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                  #9
                  Prayers for you. Hard to tell another man what he should choose. The older I get the more I see doors that I wish I had opened, and doors that I wish I had never went through. Those paths I took made me who I am.
                  God always new where I was going, keep putting HIM first and you won't loose.
                  You sound like you want to fly, if so go for it.
                  I got out 20 years ago and as I left the Army my commander said, "If you still want to be a helicopter pilot, I can get it done for you."
                  So I know where you are coming from.
                  C6D

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                    #10
                    Prayers for guidance sent, bud. Difficult decision!

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                      #11
                      8 yrs is a very short time in the grand scheme of life

                      Time will eventually fly by and this present day oppty could lead to a career and early retirement by age 45-50

                      I say go for it

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                        #12
                        Follow the direction God sends your heart.

                        And remember to keep the spinny thingies over your head!

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                          #13
                          Thanks for all the prayers, I believe I already know what I'm going to do, It's the shock of everything that I have worked on over the years and it finally coming together is starting to settle in. I'm young (23) and I know what a fantastic opportunity this is. I also know now that I have been excepted that if I were to choose not to do it then I would live with regrets as I get older.
                          Again, Thanks for the prayers and I will keep you all updated as everything comes together.

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                            #14
                            Just do it

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                              #15
                              More prayers sent.

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