Prayer Request

[Jon B]

Gentlemen, I feel and appreciate all of the support and prayers. It's been a rough week and I am glad to see it coming to an end. Nothing has really changed as of yet although I am getting much more used to sleeping alone. I am doing something to see the kids everyday which is helping a lot. Thank you to all of you who have sent prayers up, or reached out to me directly. I have no idea what the coming months will look like and at this point it is one foot in front of the other and breathe for most of my day.

[RWB]

I have been through this. One piece of advice I would give is to get to working out. Cardio, weights whatever your thing is. It will consume time in a productive manner, get your mind off of the current situation, make you feel better mentally and about yourself.

This is hard now but from my experience the future can be much better than where your head is today.

[EZ-10RANCH]

Good to hear and hopefully you can get more quality time with your kiddos this weekend. Like you said, one foot in front of the other. Keep your chin up and you’ve got my number if you need an ear.

[Jon B]

Haven't been on here much. She is done. She wants out. She screwed up and I am the one paying for it. After catching her, I have been a horrible husband for 21 years. I will likely lose half of my time with my children and most of the hard work I have put in for the last 21 years. At this point, I am just hoping I can manage to keep my home. Will likely have few broomsticks on the chopping block to finish paying my attorney fees.

Never saw it coming. Gents, hold your ladies tight, you never know when they will throw it all away for what they perceive as greener grass.

[EZ-10RANCH]

I was gonna check on you today. I’m sorry to hear that she’s not willing to work things out. Stay the course for your boys and know that better days are coming.

Call me if you need an ear. If I don’t hear from you soon, I’ll bug you one evening.

Hang in there!

[Quackerbox]

Going by what you and I talked about, youre not a horrible husband.

PLEASE dont hesitate to reach out. Hell if you wanna come hang out Thanksgiving, my MIL wont care. Call me if you need something

[RustyArmadillo]

Prayers sent for you and your family.

[rolylane6]

I was just thinking about you yesterday Jon and almost texted you. Sorry to hear this. I'll continue to pray for you and your family. As others have said, holler if you need anything at all.

[Chew]

Jon, let me know what you need. I'm here to help.

[Txhunter3000]

Been there and done that twice. It always seems like life will never be enjoyable again, but it will. I don't know you but enjoyed your Africa write up. I've got 2 ears to listen, just shoot me a pm.

[ThisLadyHunts]

I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better, but I can think of nothing. The heartbreak and devastation that you’re experiencing caused a catch in my breath. It sounds as if there are several good men here who have suffered the same emotional apocalypse that you’re experiencing. Kudos to you for reaching out. I think you’re in kindred company and good hands.

Blessings to you and your boys, sir.

[Spiderpig1776]

Look at it this way she doesn’t want to be there so you shouldn’t give her effort or thought. You now got rid of dead weight.

[Tommyh]

Gone through this a couple times myself. Seeking counseling if you need, because there is no shame in it. Definitely try to improve physical health as well. If she is done, she is done, and wish her well on her journey moving forward. Holding a grudge will eventually come out around the kids and they will see it. Don't speak ill of her while they are around. Most important, don't bottle it all up. it WILL come out in harmful ways later on or with new relationships.

[BlessedVeteran0305]

So sorry to hear this Jon please reach out if you need anything.

[randtx]

Prayers sent for you and your family.