For the parents here that are divorced and the kids raise show animals, how do you make it work when it's the child's time with the other parent? Do you just take up all the duties til the child is back or do you have an arrangement with the other parent?
My oldest boys wanted to do show pigs this year and we started out fine, but the more time goes by the less supportive the other party gets in this, and I'm struggling on how to handle the situation without putting the kids in the middle of a dispute between me and their mama. This is something they want to do, and I enjoy doing it with them. We basically have a 50/50 split on custody, we do a week on and week off. They only live about 15 minutes from us, but with the other party getting less and less supportive of it, it's getting harder to get them over during their week away to tend to them a few times for just a short amount of time. I won't get in to all the extra curricular activities she constantly signs them up for that we commit to getting them to on our time, but this one way road is getting really old, and I'm not sure if it's just best to quit with showing, or accept there is zero support from the other side and pick up the slack when they're gone.
Just seeing if anyone else here has been in this situation before and how you handled it.
My oldest boys wanted to do show pigs this year and we started out fine, but the more time goes by the less supportive the other party gets in this, and I'm struggling on how to handle the situation without putting the kids in the middle of a dispute between me and their mama. This is something they want to do, and I enjoy doing it with them. We basically have a 50/50 split on custody, we do a week on and week off. They only live about 15 minutes from us, but with the other party getting less and less supportive of it, it's getting harder to get them over during their week away to tend to them a few times for just a short amount of time. I won't get in to all the extra curricular activities she constantly signs them up for that we commit to getting them to on our time, but this one way road is getting really old, and I'm not sure if it's just best to quit with showing, or accept there is zero support from the other side and pick up the slack when they're gone.
Just seeing if anyone else here has been in this situation before and how you handled it.
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