This is another of my off-topic rambling observations
, but for some reason I have been fascinated by the Costa Concordia story. Just seeing that huge ship on its side is very surreal. I‘ve done a lot of reading over the years about the sinking of the Titanic (100 years ago this April) and something really struck me when watching news coverage over the last few days. Is chivalry dead? With the Titanic it was only after all the lifeboats had been launched and the ship was about to go under that the captain gave his officers and crew the “every man for himself “ order. Most of them did not survive. The captain of the Concordia on the other hand – who it sounds like was responsible for the disaster – apparently found a way to save his own skin pretty early on. More than that though, are the stories of passengers on the Concordia. I saw interviews with four different women who said hysterical men were pushing past everyone including kids to get on the lifeboats first. When the Titanic went down, letting the women and children take the boats that were available was a given – an ethic of the times. I read one account that a panicked guy who jumped on one of Titanic’s lifeboats ahead of the women was pulled off by other men and got his arse whupped. In fact more women from 3rd class - in cramped quarters deep in the hull – survived than men in first class. So instead of visions of men in tuxedos saying their goodbye’s and going down with the ship like gentlemen, this time we had petrified guys in flip flops knocking down women and children to save themselves. While I’m sure some men kept their heads about them and did the right thing, we are hearing lots of stories of the opposite. So is the “women and children first” thing over with? Is sacrificing your life so someone else’s wife and children can live a thing of the past? Would things have been different if it was all Texans on board?


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