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    My First Few Months In The Sportsman's Paradise - A Long, Open Hearted Post

    Well, some of you will remember that I took a new job in West Monroe, La. a few months ago, and we moved over here from the Temple/Belton area. The job was an incredible blessing, and came at a very good time for us. We were happy where we were, but felt like some doors were opening for us to make the move, so we did.

    Those of you who remember my thread on the move, will also remember that one of my biggest hesitations was leaving TX, and leaving an area I absolutely loved, and had a lot of great connections/comforts in. I had 2 great hunting spots within 30 minutes of my front door, plus opportunities to hunt at a few other GREAT locations within a few hours drive. Aside from the hunting opportunities, I was also living in an area I knew backwards and forwards. I'd been there for about 10 years total, so I was very comfortable, and had lots of great friends. After considering all of those factors, we ultimately decided that West Monroe was where we were supposed to be.

    After these first few months, I have to say that there have been some incredible highs, and some incredible lows. I couldn't be happier with the job. I'm the Contemporary Worship Pastor at a very large church, which just happens to be one of the most loving and welcoming groups of people I've ever worked and walked through life with. I've made some significant musical changes within our Sunday services, and have yet to hear a solid complaint. The job is a dream come true. We miss our Texas friends, but have made some deep friendships here, that I truly will be a part of the rest of our lives. Our kids love it, and have endured every step with total joy and adventure. My wife is a trooper, and I truly believe she would follow me off the edge of a cliff if that's where I told her God was calling. She's also a VERY strong and faithful believer in Jesus, so she's been an overwhelming support and encouragement as I've transitioned into a MUCH larger job, with a MUCH larger platform and expectation.

    My low points have all come from things outside of those normal daily routine/job related kind of things. I MISS TEXAS!! I miss the fact that I knew how to hunt there. I miss the open spaces. I miss sitting in a stand, and being able to see more than a pipeline in front of me. I miss having hunting spots that were MINE, spots that I'd worked, fed, hung stands, and knew the animals that I would see regularly, but had the hope of a big buck passing through. I miss dry weather. I miss the town that I knew, and never got lost in. I miss the restaurants I'd gotten used to eating at on a monthly, and sometimes weekly basis. I miss seeing people I'd known for years at stores. I miss roads that I used to drive when I needed a break from the chaos of life. I miss something (or perhaps anything) feeling familiar.

    I know this is not a normal Green Screen post. I've discovered though, that most of you guys feel like family. TBH has been my constant "familiar" thing for the past 3 months. I think I've been logged in more, and read more threads in these months than I ever did when I was really a Texas Bowhunter. I've learned a LOT about hunting, and a TON about bowhunting from this site, but I never realized how much I found comfort in TBH, and it's people.

    I guess this was half to get a few things off my chest, and half to say thanks. You guys have helped me keep going. I know the hunting will get more familiar and better, and I know life will begin to feel settled here, but for now, I'll keep enjoying the "home" I have here with you guys, even though I'm now a Louisiana Bowhunter.

    Thanks for reading.

    #2
    Give it time. AND best of luck.

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      #3
      What a heartfelt post!!!!! God is so with you, you can read it in this post. It is ok to miss what is familiar as you are somewhat unsure of what is not familiar. Take a few hints from your children and enjoy the adventure.
      Remember, you can always come back. Maybe just for a visit as God has plans for you there. Come to hunt, fish and remember, if you have been before---Nanza is coming up. What a great weekend to catch up with alot of old friends!!!!!

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        #4
        Familiarity is a good thing. But being used by God is also a great feeling. But then again if you are a worship Pastor I'm just preaching to the choir. Enjoy what gifts he has given you recently, and know that now you have the opportunity to make friends in both states
        See.....your a lucky man..LOL! I'll be praying for ya!

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          #5
          Glad you posted

          Hopefully the hardships will eventually get easier, at least you are not that far away to where you can't get a Texas "fix" every once in awhile

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            #6
            Glad you are finding a home, Will.

            I've only had the pleasure of meeting you once, but I can assure you that Louisiana is the better for your being there. God has you where he needs you, and comfort/familiarity will certainly come to you.

            BTW, you'll always be a Texan...

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              #7
              A house is not a home when you first move into it. Your new location will become home the more you are there.

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                #8
                Good write Will, He's got you out of that comfort zone for a reason. But, of course you already know that. May He continue to bless you and your family as you grow in your new location.

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                  #9


                  Patience young grasshopper


                  you are quite wise in your youth

                  yet you are still blind to your new surroundings

                  your new location has taught you humility

                  and in time you will master hunting in Louisiana


                  on a more serious note, I will be in Monroe this week and will bring you a Cajun care package guaranteed to put on a few pounds

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                    #10
                    God bless Texas!

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                      #11
                      Great post - Hang in there my friend. Based on the first part of what you wrote, I'm guessing you'll find your new surroundings more and more familiar and comfortable. Being born in Louisianna and moving step by step farther West during my life I've experience the same phenomina you are describing but in reverse. I remember first moving to FW and wondering "where are all the trees?" I've come to love and appreciate where I am and where I've been, and I know you will too

                      By the way, I ran into some family over Christmas that go to your church and they really raved about you and your family! I've been needing to call you with some hunting connections so stand by...

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                        #12
                        you will always be a texasbowhunter, no matter where you live....

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                          #13
                          You have a job you seem to really enjoy and family and friends that support you in it, you are truly blessed. As far as the homesick feeling, it will never go away but it will get easier.

                          Enjoy the challenge of finding a new way to hunt where you are.

                          My family moved to Southern California when I was 12 and the hunting options really shrank for a lot of years for us, but at least the fishing options were pretty darned good, and only 11 years later my whole family moved back home to Texas

                          Just flow with what is going on and make a trip back home once in a while and you will be fiine.

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                            #14
                            Thanks guys. I do know that getting to do a job I absolutely love is a huge blessing. Having the family I have is another blessing I don't deserve, but truly give thanks for daily. I know that this place/time is a total blessing, and I'm gonna soak every moment up for sure!

                            All the other stuff will progress and things will settle comfortably. Thanks for the encouragement and reminder. Just writing this stuff out really helped to clear my head!

                            Blake - you know what day you'll be here? Got a few appts this week and I want to make sure not to set anything up when you're here.

                            Luke - I'll look forward to chatting!

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                              #15
                              I fill your pain. I am Born and Raised Texan and moved just a little over a year ago. My wife and I do love where we are in our life, but we do miss Texas.
                              Likeit was said above, Patience.. All will come together for you.

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