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First season without my son & best friend

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    First season without my son & best friend

    This deer season, and all those that will follow, will be the toughest of my life. On April 27 of this year, my son and best friend went Home with his loving wife and family by his side.

    He was 26-years old and had courageously battled cancer for the last 1 1/2 years. Clay was a wonderful son, devoted husband and simply lived for the outdoors. We spent every free moment together on the lake, at the deer lease or just enjoying God's great creations.

    Every man should have the honor to be a father to a son like Clay, who was the most joyful, giving, appreciate human being most will have ever met. Not once did he ask "why me", despite his body being ravaged and taking away so much that he enjoyed.

    He was also a great teacher. I was not even close to being a complete man until Clay came into my life. He taught me to only give, never take. He taught me to have compassion, not turn a blind eye. Mostly, he taught me to enjoy life's simple pleasures, not matter how simple or immaterial.

    The hole in my heart is irrepairable, but nothing can take away the best 26 1/2 years of my life. I'm sorry for the long post, but he loved bowhunting and I felt the need to honor this outstanding man. I'll see you on the other side, buddy.

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    #2
    Thanks for sharing this story with us. He sounds like a great son. One any man would be proud of.

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      #3
      Thanks for sharing. I am sorry for your loss.

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        #4
        Great picture. Regards to you and your family for your loss. Honor him and enjoy the outdoors like it seems he did.

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          #5
          Wow. What a nice tribute. I have a feeling he'll be with you out there!

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            #6
            No need at all to apologize. Sounds like you raised a fine young man. Do not mourn his death, but celebrate his life. He will always be with you on every hunt you go on. Your words are a great tribute. God Bless you and your family. May His love comfort you and your family.

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              #7
              What a wonderful tribute to a remarkable young man. I am sorry for your family's loss! Although he is not with you physically, I know he is with you in spirit! His successes and accomplishments in his short life speak volumes of the way in which he was raised. Kudos to you for outstanding parenting!

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                #8
                Wow

                I share your pain. Cancer is a terrible disease.

                I am fortunate that my two children have not been affected. I hope I never have to experience the parents nightmare you just went through...but my sister is currently dying of breast cancer. It is no longer a keep your fingers crossed "hope it stays in remission" but rather a "when" it will take her. We just spent three hours last night talking on the phone.

                "End of life" discussions are gut wrenching and totally unsatisfying. Acceptance of inexplicable facts are something you can dance around and even try to get a feeble human mind grip on but never really get over.

                I am very very sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.
                Last edited by cosmiccowboy; 10-20-2009, 09:24 PM.

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                  #9
                  So sorry for your loss. I'm sure he is pleased that you will be back in the woods this season - thinking of him.

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                    #10
                    way to go "dad" Great post and good luck sir

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                      #11
                      Sorry for your loss...I'm sure he will be there with you enjoying the hunt

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                        #12
                        Thanks for sharing, sorry for your loss

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                          #13
                          Sorry for your loss. I will say a prayer for you and your family. Your story will always stay with me.

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                            #14
                            Sorry for your loss. I know the feeling...........just know hes looking down on you from up above wanting you to carry on celebrating his memory in your heart!

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                              #15
                              I am speechless after reading your post.

                              May God bless you and your family.

                              Know that that Clay is at the right hand of Christ with his bow in hand!!!

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